BlackwaveButterfly
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I believe long distance relationships (LDR) can work out, depending on whom you're talking too and/or common interests can attract each other. I wish to discuss the LDR with my girlfriend, Polly.
I met her on a 3D chat avatar client called IMVU. IMVU is mediocre and if anyone has heard of it, you may understand what I am talking about, the people there are mostly big headed, obnoxious, show-offs though, you can meet some really nice people which are only about 5% of IMVU, it has got worse through the years, bullying, racism, harassment increased on IMVU and I really felt uncomfortable being around these types of people, even in an avatar form. I visited a chat room daily under the name of "Wolf's Class" and it was a good experience, some people thought they were "it" (the centre of attention) but since I had the moderation for a while, I was able to put them into check. Moving on, one day I was just watching the chat until a user named "Polyhores" entered the chat, her avatar was incredibly unique, I believe I never saw anything like it! Though I knew it was only a pixel character... anyway, we started to talk, hit it off at an instant, we share the same interests really but in a different way, like she enjoys Harry Potter, I have never really been interested but I wouldn't mind watching with her. We invited each other into our own chats more often and I was started to become in love with Polly. I got to know where she lived, her age, etc. but never was able to see what she looked like since IMVU does not support sending images over unless using a link and Polly was not knowledgeable with technology. Anyway, she sent me a picture via Kik and guys, seriously, I've never had my eyes pop out my eyes but I think they did and they were dancing on the ground at that moment, she's beautiful!
I really wanted to start dating her but through my previous relationships I was scared of being rejected, but I was able to ask her because I thought if I didn't then maybe I might not ever get the chance again. I asked her and she immediately said yes, we still talk about it today and how our emotions were soaring at the time. Now, we talk on Skype as IMVU is not needed in our lives, I find IMVU to be more of a drama pit of hatred and greed than anything else.
We planned to meet up and we met up the day after my birthday and we did. I was pretty mad on the day because I had to travel quite a while and I reached where she was about 2 PM and she wasn't there, she came an hour later and I was pretty annoyed by it, I even told her this and I knew she felt bad, I admit, I did go on about but I wanted to get out it out my mind since it was our first meeting. We got into Starbucks and she gave me a birthday card and some chocolates. I gave her a Black Sabbath Tshirt since it was her birthday in Septemeber. I loved the card so much, her emotions were driven right into the card and it made me feel so loved and overjoyed. I held her hand with pride to know that this woman is mine and only mine, I missed the next bus though so we had more time to spend, I couldn't stop kissing her and iasfghjhgf hehe... She plans to move in with me in Feburary which is exciting and hopefully I won't be as lonely.
Does anyone have any long distance relationship stories?
I met her on a 3D chat avatar client called IMVU. IMVU is mediocre and if anyone has heard of it, you may understand what I am talking about, the people there are mostly big headed, obnoxious, show-offs though, you can meet some really nice people which are only about 5% of IMVU, it has got worse through the years, bullying, racism, harassment increased on IMVU and I really felt uncomfortable being around these types of people, even in an avatar form. I visited a chat room daily under the name of "Wolf's Class" and it was a good experience, some people thought they were "it" (the centre of attention) but since I had the moderation for a while, I was able to put them into check. Moving on, one day I was just watching the chat until a user named "Polyhores" entered the chat, her avatar was incredibly unique, I believe I never saw anything like it! Though I knew it was only a pixel character... anyway, we started to talk, hit it off at an instant, we share the same interests really but in a different way, like she enjoys Harry Potter, I have never really been interested but I wouldn't mind watching with her. We invited each other into our own chats more often and I was started to become in love with Polly. I got to know where she lived, her age, etc. but never was able to see what she looked like since IMVU does not support sending images over unless using a link and Polly was not knowledgeable with technology. Anyway, she sent me a picture via Kik and guys, seriously, I've never had my eyes pop out my eyes but I think they did and they were dancing on the ground at that moment, she's beautiful!
I really wanted to start dating her but through my previous relationships I was scared of being rejected, but I was able to ask her because I thought if I didn't then maybe I might not ever get the chance again. I asked her and she immediately said yes, we still talk about it today and how our emotions were soaring at the time. Now, we talk on Skype as IMVU is not needed in our lives, I find IMVU to be more of a drama pit of hatred and greed than anything else.
We planned to meet up and we met up the day after my birthday and we did. I was pretty mad on the day because I had to travel quite a while and I reached where she was about 2 PM and she wasn't there, she came an hour later and I was pretty annoyed by it, I even told her this and I knew she felt bad, I admit, I did go on about but I wanted to get out it out my mind since it was our first meeting. We got into Starbucks and she gave me a birthday card and some chocolates. I gave her a Black Sabbath Tshirt since it was her birthday in Septemeber. I loved the card so much, her emotions were driven right into the card and it made me feel so loved and overjoyed. I held her hand with pride to know that this woman is mine and only mine, I missed the next bus though so we had more time to spend, I couldn't stop kissing her and iasfghjhgf hehe... She plans to move in with me in Feburary which is exciting and hopefully I won't be as lonely.
Does anyone have any long distance relationship stories?