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I Don't Go Out For Long Periods!
Hi All!

I'm getting worried about my avoidant behaviour. I stay in in my flat for long periods. 8-12hrs if not longer sometimes. This time now is 27hrs and I've had no contact with anyone. Just a couple of texts and Facebook. Is it dangerous as I don't feel that well mentally be honest.

Is there someone nearby that could pop over to you for a little while? At least then you are still getting some interaction, but can build towards venturing out?
Why don't you go out? And what do you mean by not feeling mentally well?
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It sounds like your agoraphobic. Do you fear open spaces? Or is it something else that you are scared of like social interaction? 
I would go and see your Dr or maybe get some counselling if there is no one close to you that you can talk too.
Trying to understand the behavior of some people is like trying to smell the colour 9! 
I have a tendency to do the same. So I reserve time to go out and do something. ANYTHING. Even if it's just going to the local shop, or taking a walk through the park, or other things of that nature. Sometimes I'll go out at midnight at chat with the old folks always having a coffee at that time at the McDonalds close to where I live.
Contact keeps us human. Reminds us we need it.
I find one day a week to not go anywhere at all very relaxing. I have a big yard and garden for exercise, Netflix, and books. More than one day isn’t good for me. It depends on why you’re not going out. I work in an office. I usually like to go out and be social a couple times a week. I have only been going out 1-2 times a month for maybe six months. I’m not sure why. I guess I have hermit tendencies, but I really don’t want to be alone either. I have friends to go to happy hours with. I can’t seen to find friends to do active things with, like maybe a hike.

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