Hi, there is this girl in my class that I would be open to date (she seems to like me) but I am not sure if it is a good idea:
1)I think she is cute but I am not extremely attracted to her, sexually. I can picture myself cuddling with her and spending time together but is not like I am crazy to sleep with her. 2) If something goes wrong I would have to deal with the awkwardness for 3 years (we are in college). 3) I don´t want to have a relationship of 3 years.
I have posted a thread a month ago about my concerns with casual sex. In case you haven´t read it, basically what I really want is that, just sex or "fuckbuddies" with different women because I have fear of missing out. Then why don´t just pursue casual sex instead of a relationship with this girl? Because it would take a while for me to have that lifestyle. I need to become more social, learn to flirt,... while I improve my overall looks. I have made progress during this month but like I said, this is going to take a while. On top of that I am very busy with my studies. Then why not stay the way you are right now? Because I am getting lonely... I am so burn out about everything, I don´t know what to do or why I feel this way.
Any thoughts?
1)I think she is cute but I am not extremely attracted to her, sexually. I can picture myself cuddling with her and spending time together but is not like I am crazy to sleep with her. 2) If something goes wrong I would have to deal with the awkwardness for 3 years (we are in college). 3) I don´t want to have a relationship of 3 years.
I have posted a thread a month ago about my concerns with casual sex. In case you haven´t read it, basically what I really want is that, just sex or "fuckbuddies" with different women because I have fear of missing out. Then why don´t just pursue casual sex instead of a relationship with this girl? Because it would take a while for me to have that lifestyle. I need to become more social, learn to flirt,... while I improve my overall looks. I have made progress during this month but like I said, this is going to take a while. On top of that I am very busy with my studies. Then why not stay the way you are right now? Because I am getting lonely... I am so burn out about everything, I don´t know what to do or why I feel this way.
Any thoughts?