Weird Fetishes?

So, this is definitely unlike any other question I've seen in the relationship's part of the forum! So here we go...

I've always been a bit insecure about some of the fetishes I have, being a very sexual person it's something I know will effect any future relationship I have.. (and I hope in a good way!) but it did make me wonder?... Is there any fetishes that if you discovered your partner had, would make you reconsider being in a relationship with them?

Obviously I don't mean people who are into illegal activities, I don't think anyone can blame you if it was beastiality! But anything from a mild foot fetish too the most extreme of activities? Would it put you off? Give as much detail as you feel comfortable!

Anyway, I can't wait to hear any of your opinions! Thank you!

LifePath1 said:

So, this is definitely unlike any other question I've seen in the relationship's part of the forum! So here we go...

I've always been a bit insecure about some of the fetishes I have, being a very sexual person it's something I know will effect any future relationship I have.. (and I hope in a good way!) but it did make me wonder?... Is there any fetishes that if you discovered your partner had, would make you reconsider being in a relationship with them?

Obviously I don't mean people who are into illegal activities, I don't think anyone can blame you if it was beastiality! But anything from a mild foot fetish too the most extreme of activities? Would it put you off? Give as much detail as you feel comfortable!

Anyway, I can't wait to hear any of your opinions! Thank you!

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While I did in the past partake in those particular experiences, at the age I'm at now, if I was dating someone with a fascination with threesomes, it would give me pause. There isn't much sexually speaking that balks me, but finding someone for those kinds of experiences tend to create gaping problems in relationships that wouldn't otherwise be there. So I'm not too sure I'd react so well if say, my partner of X years came to me with those particular interests in mind.
I also wouldn't be much for exchangism (échangisme in french, trading partners.). Again for the same reason, because of the variables involved. Maybe some day when my wee-wee doesn't go up anymore and she still wants some action...

Besides that, everything is pretty much fair game. Unless it's something illegal.

Always wanted a girl dressed in a chicken suit to sit on my face while pouring chocolate fudge over my chest while singing "Bailamo" as I'm sucking her kneecaps and tickling her feet, but I'm sure a lot of people are like that...

I'm interested in this thread.....

Danielle said:

I'm interested in this thread.....  

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I got one for you, Danielle! Haha 

So, this guy I dated for a few weeks or so told me that him and his ex wife were swingers and had couples come over and do the dirty. Well, he found out during a deployment that she cheated on him with a guy who wasn’t one of the men/couples that they were swinging with. He considered that cheating, so they divorced. 
He asked if I was into that and I said “uh, no”. Then he told me he likes having a few guys have sex w his girl as well and if I wanted to try. I was like “uhhhh hell no” lol. 
I didn’t understand if he just liked seeing a woman belittled and being a used like a “whore”, or if it was a porn fantasy or something, but yeah. I kind of stopped communicating with him after that.

Little did I know, when I actually went to his house, he lives right across the street from the family I nanny for!!! Small military town I live in for sure. Embarrassing. I saw him today as I was leaving from babysitting and he wants to go to dinner tomorrow. Eek!
Funny that I saw this thread today lol.

Danielle said:

I'm interested in this thread.....  

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Dirty girl! Hahaha

This thread interests me too! Only because i like to ride my horse whilst only wearing long leather boots! I may or may not be joking! And I have a shoe fetish or i think i do as at last count i have 38 pairs of high heeled shoes i never wear!!
But as for a partners fetishes....No poop.....or pee......or illegal acts........or gagging and asphyxiation...... Everything else is ok!

ManitobaBrit70 said:

This thread interests me too! Only because i like to ride my horse whilst only wearing long leather boots! I may or may not be joking! And I have a shoe fetish or i think i do as at last count i have 38 pairs of high heeled shoes i never wear!!
But as for a partners fetishes....No poop.....or pee......or illegal acts........or gagging and asphyxiation...... Everything else is ok!

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I like a good gag.
Bucket of water over the door is always priceless ;-)

LifePath1 said:

So, this is definitely unlike any other question I've seen in the relationship's part of the forum! So here we go...

I've always been a bit insecure about some of the fetishes I have, being a very sexual person it's something I know will effect any future relationship I have.. (and I hope in a good way!) but it did make me wonder?... Is there any fetishes that if you discovered your partner had, would make you reconsider being in a relationship with them?

Obviously I don't mean people who are into illegal activities, I don't think anyone can blame you if it was beastiality! But anything from a mild foot fetish too the most extreme of activities? Would it put you off? Give as much detail as you feel comfortable!

Anyway, I can't wait to hear any of your opinions! Thank you!

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Monogamy . Unlike most of the other commenters, I'm intrigued by the idea of trading partners or getting involved in swinger groups. Provided, of course, everyone agreed to take precautions. Bareback is something that never appealed to me. I'd also have to be concerned if a potential partner wanted to try scat activities. Gross!

reynard_muldrake said:

try scat activities. Gross!

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The french is getting in the way and I can't seem to find a definition LOL!.

What the hell is that?

Richard_39 said:

reynard_muldrake said:

try scat activities. Gross!

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The french is getting in the way and I can't seem to find a definition LOL!.

What the hell is that?

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Poop!

ManitobaBrit70 said:

This thread interests me too! Only because i like to ride my horse whilst only wearing long leather boots! I may or may not be joking! And I have a shoe fetish or i think i do as at last count i have 38 pairs of high heeled shoes i never wear!!
But as for a partners fetishes....No poop.....or pee......or illegal acts........or gagging and asphyxiation...... Everything else is ok!

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I didn't make this thread for my actual girlfriend to post on! Hahaha!

The question was "Is there any fetishes that if you discovered your partner had, would make you reconsider being in a relationship with them?" well we both know you didn't reconsider me! I wonder how you knew scat was poop? Hmmmm....

Typical teasing behaviour from you! It's good luck no one's noticed our age yet eh?

Would definitely consider a relationship with someone riding a horse in just boots...never getting to sleep now...

EWWWW

...oh sh*t.

;-)

Favavourite joke ever (and possibly also the oldest, so sorry):

"Whip me! Whip me!" cried the masochist.

And the sadist said, "no."

"I'm a furry" would put me off pretty significantly, I'd say.