AveryTroubledBoy
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Hi All.
As you can all probably tell I’m reasonably new to this forum and I’ve got a couple of things that i would like to share with you all and possibly get some input.
So basically I’m 20 years old and I work as a support worker for people with learning disabilities I also look after my sisters so my mum can work to keep a roof over her head and the girls which means when I’m not working she is and I’m baby sitting from 7.30am-10pm (I don’t charge her to look after them).
So I have no time to myself so I’ve tried online dating with no luck at all like I’ve met a few guys but they only want one thing and then to leave (forgot to mention I’m gay lol) which I’m not into at all I think it might be im a bit mature for my age but I don’t know maybe????, like a few people have said it and said that it’s scares them but am I really mature because I don’t want just a one time fling ?.
And I think it has a lot to do with I don’t have a lot of time for people so I’m kinda scared about getting  into a relationship because I’m either working or baby sitting, but I can’t tell my mum that im not babysitting because that wouldn’t make me a bad person and make her homeless???
Any advice people please !!!.
As you can all probably tell I’m reasonably new to this forum and I’ve got a couple of things that i would like to share with you all and possibly get some input.
So basically I’m 20 years old and I work as a support worker for people with learning disabilities I also look after my sisters so my mum can work to keep a roof over her head and the girls which means when I’m not working she is and I’m baby sitting from 7.30am-10pm (I don’t charge her to look after them).
So I have no time to myself so I’ve tried online dating with no luck at all like I’ve met a few guys but they only want one thing and then to leave (forgot to mention I’m gay lol) which I’m not into at all I think it might be im a bit mature for my age but I don’t know maybe????, like a few people have said it and said that it’s scares them but am I really mature because I don’t want just a one time fling ?.
And I think it has a lot to do with I don’t have a lot of time for people so I’m kinda scared about getting  into a relationship because I’m either working or baby sitting, but I can’t tell my mum that im not babysitting because that wouldn’t make me a bad person and make her homeless???
Any advice people please !!!.