I recently went on a first meet with an internet date and it seemed to go OK. But afterwards when we were emailing he mentioned that his mother had had breast cancer and when I wrote back I mentioned that I had had it too many years ago, he wrote back and said 'it felt funny to imagine me topless but that he would like to see.' This really put me off him as we hardly know each other and, after telling him that I had had a serious illness, I didn't expect him to respond that way. It was inapporopriate and also, to be honest, it felt creepy. I sent a short text saying I felt we were incompatible and now he has texted back saying I have problems with sex/breast cancer (not so) and need counselling. The only 'problem' I have in these matters is when someone who hardly knows me wants to see me topless. I haven't replied to his text as it could turn into a furious exchange of messages and I would rather leave him behind me. Have I overreacted or do other forum members find that his wanting to see me topless was inapporpriate given that we were almost strangers to each other?