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Strong feelings for a girl i train with
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(Yesterday, 10:41 PM)Red_Wedding_Casualty Wrote: Most us here can empathize with the dude. Like he said: It's been about 5 years since he's either been in a relationship, or tried to ask a girl out. Either way, their would have been a tonne of anxiety riding on his back. Most of us losers here know what that feels like. And, those of us that lack your willpower can't just switch that shit off. Sure, we don't know exactly what happened and how, but props to him for at least summoning up what little courage he had to try and test the waters, knowing that it would be received poorly(OP's braver than me at least). And lo and behold, the scenario played out exactly as he feared.

Understandable. But he survived. The worst that could have happened was the other party saying no. Whenever I read about situations like this, some people act as though they'll die if they're rejected. Rejection is a part of life. It happens. I'm sure the OP will eventually find someone who will give him the answer he's been looking for. Just because it's not right away, doesn't mean it won't ever happen.

(Yesterday, 10:44 PM)ardour Wrote: Always up to men to initiate and risk rejection: at the right time and in the perfect way. He got it wrong and is harshly judged for it.  Par for the course.

Men don't always have to initiate. I mean, if you want something, then of course you go for it. But women do initiate and get rejected as well.
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