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Strong feelings for a girl i train with
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(07-26-2018, 08:10 PM)TheRealCallie Wrote: Just because a woman is taking contraceptives, whether it's the pill or the implant, does NOT automatically make her have a boyfriend.  There are MANY reasons women go on contraceptives and they don't all involve sex.   Those things can last for years, so you still have no idea.

Ok. Im now actually sounding like a weirdo arent i.

Right Im just gonna bloody ask her Callie. There really is no other way is there? And if she is with someone, then that's just tough luck aint it! Just have to man up and get on with it.
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#72
If you want a definitive answer, you kind of have to go to the source.
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(07-25-2018, 10:46 AM)kamya Wrote:
(07-25-2018, 10:11 AM)TheRealCallie Wrote: Oh for fuck's sake.....now this is just asinine.

Now remember! Just because you THINK they were implying that she's a stupid bitch, doesn't mean it's what they REALLY think. Only THEY know what THEY were trying to say. You shouldn't interpret any of their words as anything more than what THEY said because you don't KNOW what THEY were thinking when THEY said them.

this is a beautiful and underrated reply
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(07-26-2018, 09:28 PM)DarkSelene Wrote:
(07-25-2018, 10:46 AM)kamya Wrote:
(07-25-2018, 10:11 AM)TheRealCallie Wrote: Oh for fuck's sake.....now this is just asinine.

Now remember! Just because you THINK they were implying that she's a stupid bitch, doesn't mean it's what they REALLY think. Only THEY know what THEY were trying to say. You shouldn't interpret any of their words as anything more than what THEY said because you don't KNOW what THEY were thinking when THEY said them.

this is a beautiful and underrated reply

Actually, that reply is also asinine since he appears to have no damn idea what I was referring to with my post.   Rolleyes
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(07-26-2018, 08:14 PM)pad79 Wrote:
(07-26-2018, 08:10 PM)TheRealCallie Wrote: Just because a woman is taking contraceptives, whether it's the pill or the implant, does NOT automatically make her have a boyfriend.  There are MANY reasons women go on contraceptives and they don't all involve sex.   Those things can last for years, so you still have no idea.

Ok. Im now actually sounding like a weirdo arent i.

Right Im just gonna bloody ask her Callie. There really is no other way is there? And if she is with someone, then that's just tough luck aint it! Just have to man up and get on with it.

In a somewhat different state of mind, even though I agree with what Callie's said so far, I don't know why you'd bother with someone who's expressed disinterest. Not to make it sound shallow or callous, but just as fact, there are other fishes in the sea and my mentality behind rejection is usually "Cool, your loss kiddo, someone else's gain when I find her".
I wouldnt care enough to pursue the matter further much.
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#76
This thread made my night.
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(07-27-2018, 02:30 AM)Richard_39 Wrote:
(07-26-2018, 08:14 PM)pad79 Wrote:
(07-26-2018, 08:10 PM)TheRealCallie Wrote: Just because a woman is taking contraceptives, whether it's the pill or the implant, does NOT automatically make her have a boyfriend.  There are MANY reasons women go on contraceptives and they don't all involve sex.   Those things can last for years, so you still have no idea.

Ok. Im now actually sounding like a weirdo arent i.

Right Im just gonna bloody ask her Callie. There really is no other way is there? And if she is with someone, then that's just tough luck aint it! Just have to man up and get on with it.

In a somewhat different state of mind, even though I agree with what Callie's said so far, I don't know why you'd bother with someone who's expressed disinterest. Not to make it sound shallow or callous, but just as fact, there are other fishes in the sea and my mentality behind rejection is usually "Cool, your loss kiddo, someone else's gain when I find her".
I wouldnt care enough to pursue the matter further much.

Well after a long think. Ive decided last week i'll take your advice Richard and you're right. No point in chasing someone who isn't really interested in me. It will only end in even more disappointment. The whole thing was ridiculous to begin with.
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(07-26-2018, 09:41 PM)TheRealCallie Wrote:
(07-26-2018, 09:28 PM)DarkSelene Wrote:
(07-25-2018, 10:46 AM)kamya Wrote:
(07-25-2018, 10:11 AM)TheRealCallie Wrote: Oh for fuck's sake.....now this is just asinine.

Now remember! Just because you THINK they were implying that she's a stupid bitch, doesn't mean it's what they REALLY think. Only THEY know what THEY were trying to say. You shouldn't interpret any of their words as anything more than what THEY said because you don't KNOW what THEY were thinking when THEY said them.

this is a beautiful and underrated reply

Actually, that reply is also asinine since he appears to have no damn idea what I was referring to with my post.   Rolleyes

He doesn't have to, but you know that... this is not a whoosh moment.
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(07-03-2018, 01:14 AM)pad79 Wrote: I train with this girl i have teamed up with in my gym. Been training with her and a small group over the last few months.

I dont know how she feels about me though. She is always hitting me and giving me the odd kick to the leg and the odd punch, (in a playful way). But I dont wanna feel stupid any long if it does not mean anything.

I make her howl laughing all the time almost every time we ever train together and we get on so well but its impossible for me to make any moves at all. I just need to know how she feels.

Does this mean anything more than just nothing when a girl behaves like this towards a guy? I cant help but feel my feelings towards her are close to spiralling out of control. I am almost 100% certain she is single too.

However, the past two weeks or so, she has been very hot and cold with me. As if something completely changed overnight between us. Some other people joined the group when this occured, but i cant see it being that why her mood seems to have changed recently.

I am starting to get really bad anxiety everytime I have to see her now and think its going to get to the point where I am going to have to leave the gym.
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