kaetic said:I wouldn't be surprised if the lazy guy is fired or quits soon, kind of sounds like that's what the self serve station is... the last position before you're out the door.
kaetic said:and a real friend would have tried to understand the reason why they got moved, not started a revenge path because they didn't get to work where they wanted to for one day.
kaetic said:There is no reason why she has to be telling you where she's going
kaetic said:Please understand I'm not trying to be mean, but you should leave her alone. From what you said this sounds like an unhealthy fixation.
kaetic said:Right, it would be so much easier if we knew what others were thinking.
In my experience, friendship or lack thereof becomes apparent after you cut the tiny excuses that hold you together. If you want to move on to a different job do it. Don't make it about her. What that will do is cause you to resent her because you'll think I could have done that but I was worried about her.
Some quick questions that might help you decide if she's really a close friend.
Do you talk outside of work?
Do you have each others phone numbers? NOT work numbers.
Does she ever call or text you for reasons unrelated to your job?
Do you hang out or do any activities outside of work together?
Have you met her husband?
Have you been invited to their home?
Has she ever been to your home?
You might be on friendly terms with her at work, but she might just not have the time for another person in her life.
I'm glad I didn't offend you. You know more about your situation than I do, obviously. I only aim to help.
Joturbo said:Yea husbands can be a full time job........maybe time to move on Soccer7
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