Timbobway
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Today is my cousin's birthday and I didn't go to the family get together due a reason that has nothing to do with him. My Aunt and Uncle first didn't invite me personally instead went through my other Aunt to tell my father and I about it. I told her that I wasn't going to go because her husband has just gotten out of the hospital. I have ocd and have a fear of contamination but this is known amongst the family. Anyway, last Thursday my Aunt calls and tells us that her brother (my cousin's father) didn't know I wasn't coming. She told him why and that was that. Today I find out that my cousin has a new girlfriend and the she is Jewish. Now no one has anything against Jews, that is not a problem, but my cousin's mother proceeded to go out of her way to tell people to be courteous not to make any jokes. I don't know what she meant by that. What gets me is that she did not care at all about me not coming but goes out of her way for this girl. I was feeling guilty before by now I no longer care. I usually force myself to go but I am ok this time by not giving a crap. I guess it is ok for them to make fun of me for having ocd and not having any friends or a girl friend, but this girl so delicate that everyone has to be warned to not offend her? It irks me so. I just needed to vent about this. My cousin is a very sore subject in my life and he is always catered to while I am always chastised. Thanks for reading this venting session.