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What is love?
#31
(11-17-2018, 04:10 AM)TheRealCallie Wrote: ^^not everyone who loves each other has children.

Then what else sense does love have?
If I will not have children then I do not see any sense in love.
Because the main aim of love is to give life for new generation of humankind.
Love without performing the main aim seems senseless for me.
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#32
Love is not the same as procreation, you know.
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#33
Love and sex are not the same thing.

You can totally have sex with someone you do not care about one bit.

Love is not just between two sexual partners, it can be love within a family, mothers and children, grandparents and their grand kids etc.
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#34
In fact, I'd like to add many people who have children dont necessarily love them, or children in general. It's not a popular subject nor fun to say, but it does happen. A very good friend of ine several years ago had two kids he gradually grew to detest and utterly abhor as time went on. I have to admit to this day I do not understand how that can be, but it's obvious that it does happen. I guess he had a very bitter experience of parenting.
Love is such an abstract and personnal concept, as I previously stated, that it's very very hard to mesure or quantify, as it can mean a practically infinite number of things depending on people's experiences.
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#35
(11-17-2018, 05:23 AM)Paul Bauman Wrote:
(11-17-2018, 04:10 AM)TheRealCallie Wrote: ^^not everyone who loves each other has children.

Then what else sense does love have?
If I will not have children then I do not see any sense in love.
Because the main aim of love is to give life for new generation of humankind.
Love without performing the main aim seems senseless for me.

You've got love confused with chemicals that originate in the brain.

Do you not love your parents? Grandparents? Siblings, etc?
She broke my heart. I didn't like that much. But that was the price. In this world, you get what you pay for.
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#36
> You've got love confused with chemicals that originate in the brain.
I do not see any difference. I think love is instincts and chemical reactions in human brain and nothing more.

> Do you not love your parents? Grandparents? Siblings, etc?
No. And I even almost do not communicate with them. I can respect or appreciate some of them but I have no any feelings or emotions that can be called "love".
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#37
I think love feels like a fire. Searing your insides. It’s both pain and pleasure. Makes me dizzy and feels like I’m on drugs. 
I have never been in the same place for too long, I have never loved someone for years.

So what does it feel like to love someone you are with for a long time?
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#38
(11-22-2018, 11:52 PM)Jessicat Wrote: I think love feels like a fire. Searing your insides. It’s both pain and pleasure. Makes me dizzy and feels like I’m on drugs. 
I have never been in the same place for too long, I have never loved someone for years.

So what does it feel like to love someone you are with for a long time?

Judging from my parents 40 year marriage, I'd say an exercise in auto-mutilation. My max has been three year. Fire is usually long dead by year one.
I don't know. Guess I've never met the right gal. Or there's something wrong with me.
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#39
Baby don't hurt me.

Don't hurt me.

No more.
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#40
(11-23-2018, 12:46 AM)niceguysfinishlast Wrote: Baby don't hurt me.

Don't hurt me.

No more.

Tam tam tam tam, ta-tam tam tam tam!
Whoa whoa whoa wahaawooo!
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