hitch1983
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Got back on the wagon so to speak and dated a girl.
Tried to go into it with the advice from here and as a result i had one of the best dates of my life. I was relaxed and less stressed.
Its a girl from online again. The connection was almost instantaneous from the first message. Really flirty and the conversation interesting and more importantly a 2 way street. So it naturally progressed to swapping numbers and talking on the phone (the next test).
That was equally as good, we talked to each other for hours some nights. Apart from tire me out from the late nights, i was feeling positive and good.
so next test was a date. The timeline from first message to date was 5 days. Monday first message, Friday night the date.
The date also went great and as i said i tried to take the tips given on here and i really relaxed and enjoyed myself. So did she, as she kissed me 3 times towards the end of the date.
We even had a lengthy phone call to each other, once we got back home and we both agreed it went well and should meet again.
So saturday just progressed as saturdays usually do for me, gym, chores etc whilst texting her. In constant communication all the way through the day.
Sat night she had a party and let her hair down, a family party. She got a bit drunk but we still were texting back n forth during the night.
All was well, no signs of anything being wrong.
We sorta made plans that night to meet up on sunday next day. Now i know she was tipsy or drunk, whatever and you cant trust plans in that condition and i didnt expect anything to happen really and they didnt in the end. She was too hungover.
Buts its sudden abruption and change of atmosphere thats really confused me.
SHe told me she suffers from anxiety and i guess with anxiety comes depression. From what i know of her and how she was with me, she looked like she was battling it well and it wasnt a big play on her life as it used to be. Maybe im wrong, i dont know much about her, its only a week.
But that sunday, she sent 3 messages in the morning and then nothing at all till night when i asked whats going on? whats happened, whats wrong?
she never really gave me answer, other than ive had a really bad with anxiety and that was it. Nothing else.
Still not had a reply or communication with her today. Sent her a message that im here for her and i care and hope we can get past this etc. but nothing.
So what the hell do i do? It makes it even more hard, because another dating website im part of, not the one we met off, i came across her profile on there by chance and she was online.
I know that doesnt really mean anything. I get messages from time to time, doesnt mean im in communication with anyone. just means ive accessed the site for whatever reason. But its a edge to the story which makes me feel really uneasy and anxious myself.
Especially when it went so well between us. I dont know what to do and im cut up about the whole thing. It hurts.
Tried to go into it with the advice from here and as a result i had one of the best dates of my life. I was relaxed and less stressed.
Its a girl from online again. The connection was almost instantaneous from the first message. Really flirty and the conversation interesting and more importantly a 2 way street. So it naturally progressed to swapping numbers and talking on the phone (the next test).
That was equally as good, we talked to each other for hours some nights. Apart from tire me out from the late nights, i was feeling positive and good.
so next test was a date. The timeline from first message to date was 5 days. Monday first message, Friday night the date.
The date also went great and as i said i tried to take the tips given on here and i really relaxed and enjoyed myself. So did she, as she kissed me 3 times towards the end of the date.
We even had a lengthy phone call to each other, once we got back home and we both agreed it went well and should meet again.
So saturday just progressed as saturdays usually do for me, gym, chores etc whilst texting her. In constant communication all the way through the day.
Sat night she had a party and let her hair down, a family party. She got a bit drunk but we still were texting back n forth during the night.
All was well, no signs of anything being wrong.
We sorta made plans that night to meet up on sunday next day. Now i know she was tipsy or drunk, whatever and you cant trust plans in that condition and i didnt expect anything to happen really and they didnt in the end. She was too hungover.
Buts its sudden abruption and change of atmosphere thats really confused me.
SHe told me she suffers from anxiety and i guess with anxiety comes depression. From what i know of her and how she was with me, she looked like she was battling it well and it wasnt a big play on her life as it used to be. Maybe im wrong, i dont know much about her, its only a week.
But that sunday, she sent 3 messages in the morning and then nothing at all till night when i asked whats going on? whats happened, whats wrong?
she never really gave me answer, other than ive had a really bad with anxiety and that was it. Nothing else.
Still not had a reply or communication with her today. Sent her a message that im here for her and i care and hope we can get past this etc. but nothing.
So what the hell do i do? It makes it even more hard, because another dating website im part of, not the one we met off, i came across her profile on there by chance and she was online.
I know that doesnt really mean anything. I get messages from time to time, doesnt mean im in communication with anyone. just means ive accessed the site for whatever reason. But its a edge to the story which makes me feel really uneasy and anxious myself.
Especially when it went so well between us. I dont know what to do and im cut up about the whole thing. It hurts.