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#31
Maybe that's where I went wrong in my marriage. I didn't watch him play his video games.
"You are as you are until you are not"

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#32
Ah, see there? Sounds like lack of support to me! Big Grin
You should probably just have asked for more money.
Then again, that's kind of my go-to for everything, so I don't know how much that's worth.
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#33
I've never been asked for money on a date before. To be honest, I would probably feel more useful than when someone fights with me to pay for my $2 coffee.
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#34
(01-10-2019, 03:41 PM)AmyTheTemperamental Wrote: I've never been asked for money on a date before. To be honest, I would probably feel more useful than when someone fights with me to pay for my $2 coffee.


Lol well I always go 50-50. If a woman gets offended because I'didn't pay for her, which hasn't happened so far, I'd reply "I'm cheap. Tell yourself I can at least handle money and put it in the plus column" ;-)
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#35
(01-10-2019, 02:49 PM)ardour Wrote: The Taliban-like views on women are odious, and the increasing frequency of violence is worrying, but it's impossible to know how much of what they say is for real or just echo chamber edginess that's gotten progressively more extreme with time.Also...what a huge gift to SJW types that want to shame and characterize single straight males the worst way possible. Thanks, incels.
That's certainly a fair point, since not every threat made is a threat carried out. However, these nutjobs have already killed several people. Last April, an "incel rebel" killed 10 people in Toronto by driving into them with his van and later in November another "incel" attacked a yoga studio in Florida, killing 2 women before commiting suicide.
But yeah, I agree about them pretty much just handing out ammo to SJW's. With those morons acting in the open, I guess those rants about evil, chauvinistic straight white males aren't so insane anymore.
Crowd control situation! *machine gun fire intensifies*
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#36
How do you manage to stay the course with MGTOW? Chemicals in my brain cause me to have crushes on girls about once every year or two and everytime it happens I just get really depressed since all possible roads from there seem to lead to embarrassment/dissappointment. How do you supress feeling attraction to them?
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#37
(01-11-2019, 04:52 AM)MildlyInteresting Wrote: How do you manage to stay the course with MGTOW? Chemicals in my brain cause me to have crushes on girls about once every year or two and everytime it happens I just get really depressed since all possible roads from there seem to lead to embarrassment/dissappointment. How do you supress feeling attraction to them?

Marriage is a sexual union?.

Simple?.

Impossible to apply in practice?.

But live with it?.

And from basis, everything else will become clear.

It is the foundation for everything. Everything?.
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#38
(01-11-2019, 05:13 AM)Puddled Duck Wrote:
(01-11-2019, 04:52 AM)MildlyInteresting Wrote: How do you manage to stay the course with MGTOW? Chemicals in my brain cause me to have crushes on girls about once every year or two and everytime it happens I just get really depressed since all possible roads from there seem to lead to embarrassment/dissappointment. How do you supress feeling attraction to them?

Marriage is a sexual union?.

Simple?.

Impossible to apply in practice?.

But live with it?.

And from basis, everything else will become clear.

It is the foundation for everything. Everything?.

???????
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#39
(01-11-2019, 04:52 AM)MildlyInteresting Wrote: How do you manage to stay the course with MGTOW? Chemicals in my brain cause me to have crushes on girls about once every year or two and everytime it happens I just get really depressed since all possible roads from there seem to lead to embarrassment/dissappointment. How do you supress feeling attraction to them?
I don't think you do, at least not to a degree that we'd probably prefer to be able to. As you yourself have noticed - feelings aren't something you can control, they just happen. Humans are hard wired to look for potential mates, that's not something you can just say "stop" to. What you can do however, is to sit down and think things through in a calm and collected manner.
I find myself attracted to women, I happen to develop a crush once in a while, but I'm aware that that's just what it is - a simple physical attraction. Not love or any deep feeling. Crashes are temporary, they will eventually go away.
The people I spoke with often resort to hobbies, simply keeping themselevs busy, focus on themselevs and what makes THEM happy. Some people decide to work out, some masturbate or hire an escort, some meditate and some take the meds. I think everyone eventually finds something that works for them and they're comfortable with. It probably helps that a lot of those guys had really, and I mean REALLY bad experiences with women, so suddenly a vision of a relationship doesn't look as attractive. There's no easy answer to that.
There might be, somewhere down the road, but MGTOW itself is a relatively new phenomenon, so it's bound to take time.

The younger you are, the worse it is really. After you hit the age of around 30, the testosterone levels will generally start to drop on their own, You get more experienced in dealing with it over time and once you're hit with the same feeling for the 40th time, it just isn't as potent anymore. Just hang in there. Smile
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#40
(01-11-2019, 06:43 AM)MildlyInteresting Wrote:
(01-11-2019, 05:13 AM)Puddled Duck Wrote:
(01-11-2019, 04:52 AM)MildlyInteresting Wrote: How do you manage to stay the course with MGTOW? Chemicals in my brain cause me to have crushes on girls about once every year or two and everytime it happens I just get really depressed since all possible roads from there seem to lead to embarrassment/dissappointment. How do you supress feeling attraction to them?

Marriage is a sexual union?.

Simple?.

Impossible to apply in practice?.

But live with it?.

And from basis, everything else will become clear.

It is the foundation for everything. Everything?.

???????

...What? There's your answer dude, that's how you remain MGTOW. Simple, right? ;-)
I don't consider myself that at all and personally, I think it goes against all our natures, biological or otherwise.
But, I've remained single over 11 years and don't remember what a naked girl even looks like. My trick?
I remember how much child support costs....
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