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Aww... Your not old Richard. Just more grown.
Almost anything can be a date activity!
You just got to be easy going and positive.
Almost anything can be a date activity!
You just got to be easy going and positive.
bearcat22 said:Since our western culture seems to have been telling women that they are never allowed to
ever approach a man, only to wait to be approached, the majority of men just get ignored.'
No one has ever been able to make me understand this.
bearcat22 said:Who made this rule? And why do women follow it?
bearcat22 said:Finding out it is a numbers game
bearcat22 said:Or simply did not care that things are hard for both men and for women, in very different ways.
bearcat22 said:Second, a woman would describe what she was looking for in a man. Perfectly reasonable, but most of this stuff was literally insane.
About three men in the entire history of humanity MIGHT fill all of the "requirements" these women demanded in a man.
bearcat22 said:Third, the woman would rarely say anything she had to offer that a MAN would find valuable.
Never, "I will never ask you to go shopping with me" Never, "I will rub your feet after you come home after a hard day of work"
bearcat22 said:Sixth, something has come up in our culture where women are now PROUD of being unattractive?
Look, I get that models in magazines are fake. But "Big Beautiful Woman"? I'm supposed to think you are great
because you're in denial that you're unhealthy and unattractive?
Let's turn that around for a moment. Suppose I have no money, and I start a movement and a phrase
and start calling myself a BBM? Broke Beautiful Man. Right, great idea. Because every women loves a guy with no job
and no car. Well F you because I'm PROUD of my Poverty!
X-1 Alpha said:MGTOW is actually a pretty cool movement. Almost everyone I've met from that community was simply disillusioned or no longer interested in dating etc. They just wanted to focus on their careers and hobbies, plus they fight for equal rights of men. I don't think there's anything wrong with prefering to share a cold one with friends instead of chasing skirts. They're going their own way, not getting in the way of the others.
X-1 Alpha said:If you really want to investigate a problematic movement that's existing because the "things have gotten so incredibly bad" - check out the incels (involuntary celibates). Whereas some men simply "went their own way", those guys are just women-hating psychopaths.
bearcat22 said:The value of a woman placing an ad as if she were a man, and FINALLY have some remote
understanding and speck of compassion for what it is like to be a man in our culture
bearcat22 said:Similarly, men need to learn what it is like to get three hundred unwanted penis pictures in their inbox.
bearcat22 said:Hoping to do some good in the world, I have posted an idea all over the internet, literally for years:
If you want to have a relationship with the opposite gender, you are going to have to actually
UNDERSTAND that opposite gender. One of the best ways to do that is to create a fake ad, pretending to be
a woman or a man. Send out some messages to some people, and see what happens.
Jessicat said:Aww... Your not old Richard. Just more grown.
Almost anything can be a date activity!
You just got to be easy going and positive.
Jessicat said:Aww... Your not old Richard. Just more grown.
Almost anything can be a date activity!
You just got to be easy going and positive.
That's certainly true. I thought that this always was what I wanted, but now I think it was just social pressure. "Everyone's doing this thing so I need to do it as well" kind of group thinking. If I didn't lose the genetic lottery, I'd probably still be "in the game", but I've realized that there's no point in me trying anymore. So now I'm focused completely on gaming and other hobbies. I can only wish you luck in achieving your goals and dreams.TheSkaFish said:I think they should be able to do what they want, but it doesn't appeal to me really. Having sexual and romantic companionship with a woman has been something I've always wanted, and focusing on a career or hobbies would just feel like empty distractions, just passing time. If I knew I couldn't ever get anywhere with women, I'd just want to take it easy in life. No point beating myself up for nothing.
Yes, absolutely, which makes this case even worse. I don't know if you've done much research into the incel community, but they're just nuts. Like, I know how this feels, I'm also one of the losers but I don't hate women because of that. Surprisingly, I actually quite like them, as people - not just for their genitals. In the end, we're all victims of mother nature, some afflicted by it more than others. Kinda unfair to blame evolution on women.TheSkaFish said:I think it's possible to hate the way attraction works and favors some types of people at the expense of others, without hating women themselves. I like women, I don't see them as living sex dolls, I do want to get to know them as a person, which is more than some men who women give free passes to can say. But I'm always not good enough because I just couldn't be the "right" kind of person.
Richard_39 said:Jessicat said:I used to love Mario Cart!
Dropping bananas all over.
.....man I'm old.
I don't think Mario Kart is a date activity lol
AmyTheTemperamental said:Richard_39 said:Jessicat said:I used to love Mario Cart!
Dropping bananas all over.
.....man I'm old.
I don't think Mario Kart is a date activity lol
I'm sure we could pull out the Pong if it makes you feel cozier. :club:
AmyTheTemperamental said:I've never been asked for money on a date before. To be honest, I would probably feel more useful than when someone fights with me to pay for my $2 coffee.
That's certainly a fair point, since not every threat made is a threat carried out. However, these nutjobs have already killed several people. Last April, an "incel rebel" killed 10 people in Toronto by driving into them with his van and later in November another "incel" attacked a yoga studio in Florida, killing 2 women before commiting suicide.ardour said:The Taliban-like views on women are odious, and the increasing frequency of violence is worrying, but it's impossible to know how much of what they say is for real or just echo chamber edginess that's gotten progressively more extreme with time.Also...what a huge gift to SJW types that want to shame and characterize single straight males the worst way possible. Thanks, incels.
MildlyInteresting said:How do you manage to stay the course with MGTOW? Chemicals in my brain cause me to have crushes on girls about once every year or two and everytime it happens I just get really depressed since all possible roads from there seem to lead to embarrassment/dissappointment. How do you supress feeling attraction to them?
Puddled Duck said:MildlyInteresting said:How do you manage to stay the course with MGTOW? Chemicals in my brain cause me to have crushes on girls about once every year or two and everytime it happens I just get really depressed since all possible roads from there seem to lead to embarrassment/dissappointment. How do you supress feeling attraction to them?
Marriage is a sexual union?.
Simple?.
Impossible to apply in practice?.
But live with it?.
And from basis, everything else will become clear.
It is the foundation for everything. Everything?.
???????
I don't think you do, at least not to a degree that we'd probably prefer to be able to. As you yourself have noticed - feelings aren't something you can control, they just happen. Humans are hard wired to look for potential mates, that's not something you can just say "stop" to. What you can do however, is to sit down and think things through in a calm and collected manner.MildlyInteresting said:How do you manage to stay the course with MGTOW? Chemicals in my brain cause me to have crushes on girls about once every year or two and everytime it happens I just get really depressed since all possible roads from there seem to lead to embarrassment/dissappointment. How do you supress feeling attraction to them?
MildlyInteresting said:Puddled Duck said:MildlyInteresting said:How do you manage to stay the course with MGTOW? Chemicals in my brain cause me to have crushes on girls about once every year or two and everytime it happens I just get really depressed since all possible roads from there seem to lead to embarrassment/dissappointment. How do you supress feeling attraction to them?
Marriage is a sexual union?.
Simple?.
Impossible to apply in practice?.
But live with it?.
And from basis, everything else will become clear.
It is the foundation for everything. Everything?.
???????
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