Yes of course. I mean, I've always played the slick, hip , n cool and the devil may care falla.
so in my eyes I think i'm cool..Then a friend of mine called me a dork or I act like a dork or a spaz sometimes..lmao
One of greatest healing process for me was to be able to laugh at myself and allow myself
to be corny or dorky sometime.lol Once i can luagh at myself...it's down hill from there. It help me becuase i was up tight or so self
aware of my flaws. By allowing myself to luagh at myself i was
able to be free of the crazy strictions i up upon myself. In other
words I begin to accept and love myself as who I am with the many flaws or imperfections and it was okay. I no longer needed to pretend
to be something I wasn't or put on a front/mask anymore. I begin to have more self confidents or self esteem becuase I simply can confidently laugh at myself. Well, if I can luagh at myself already,
it dosn't matter much what other people think or say about me.
So my time or engery is no longer wasted in wondering or worrying what others think about me.
A freindship cuts through many lines. Maybe its what you need at this moment in your life
as a learning process.
It might also help you later on if you decide to get into
a seriouse relationship. well...the secret is...most women think guys are dorks..lmao
They just say it different...." he makes me laugh".