morrowrd
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I go back and forth. I'm 53, I can retire at 55. I finally have a good girl, and would like to retire and have fun with her, like alot of people my age who have been at a job for 30 ******* years. I'm sick of this job, I hate the staff, I hate this place, I'm burned out. Retiring sounds good except I'm a low level supervisor. I took this job in 91, and I'm still here, same job. I make good money, but it's not "good money" as the world sees. In my adult years this is the best I've ever been financially, my ex wife siphoned off our money for 23 years...and I'm resentful.
To the point, my new supervisor, (last one retired) is early 30s and very idealistic, but in sinc with the new way of thinking for this generation. He likes...or liked me until he got to know me better. He likes and trusts my honesty and judgment, but dislikes (I think) my personality. I'm very very blunt in an honest way. Another thing, there's more women here, like 10 to 1, and they ALL have a ******* crush on him, it's super annoying, yet this has been my easiest year here...in all of the years because all these stuck up bitches have on their minds is him. He's ok, good person....his values are good values, they mirror my own.
My wife works here, and a young girl came into her dept, and has a huge crush on this guy...and made if obvious. He liked it, and when my my wife and I married...that happened when he first started, he was all into it....Said alot about how much of a great role model I'd be to her children, how much he knew I'd take care of her,..... etc
Now....all he cares about is that ******* young girl who doesn't like to work, my wife does 75% of what needs doing in that dept, yet that ***** gets all the credit.
Whatever, I have choice....retire at 55 which gives me a year and a half to put in the paperwork, or just stay and keep working here burned out. I know once I leave, it's done. All those fringe benefits are over, the money, the security, over. I thought about retiring and taking all that incentive money and just getting another job. The problem there is I will end up retiring and working more....
Either I take the money and leave, or stay and make my state retirement richer staying into my 60's. There are people here retiring and taking world trips...I'm not that rich. I have plenty of money to pay for things, within reason. Actually I'm probably living finally like all of you live. Normally
Anyway, my new boss, I feel is tired of me and my co-worker, I really feel he'd like to replace us both.
Whatever my friends - I am so used to people not liking me it isn't funny. My 20's, my 50's it's a pattern that follows me. I warned my girlfriend before she married me, get ready for people where we work to distance themselves because of me. It's happened.
I just blurted this all out, without really thinking about it. Give feedback as you feel is right.
To the point, my new supervisor, (last one retired) is early 30s and very idealistic, but in sinc with the new way of thinking for this generation. He likes...or liked me until he got to know me better. He likes and trusts my honesty and judgment, but dislikes (I think) my personality. I'm very very blunt in an honest way. Another thing, there's more women here, like 10 to 1, and they ALL have a ******* crush on him, it's super annoying, yet this has been my easiest year here...in all of the years because all these stuck up bitches have on their minds is him. He's ok, good person....his values are good values, they mirror my own.
My wife works here, and a young girl came into her dept, and has a huge crush on this guy...and made if obvious. He liked it, and when my my wife and I married...that happened when he first started, he was all into it....Said alot about how much of a great role model I'd be to her children, how much he knew I'd take care of her,..... etc
Now....all he cares about is that ******* young girl who doesn't like to work, my wife does 75% of what needs doing in that dept, yet that ***** gets all the credit.
Whatever, I have choice....retire at 55 which gives me a year and a half to put in the paperwork, or just stay and keep working here burned out. I know once I leave, it's done. All those fringe benefits are over, the money, the security, over. I thought about retiring and taking all that incentive money and just getting another job. The problem there is I will end up retiring and working more....
Either I take the money and leave, or stay and make my state retirement richer staying into my 60's. There are people here retiring and taking world trips...I'm not that rich. I have plenty of money to pay for things, within reason. Actually I'm probably living finally like all of you live. Normally
Anyway, my new boss, I feel is tired of me and my co-worker, I really feel he'd like to replace us both.
Whatever my friends - I am so used to people not liking me it isn't funny. My 20's, my 50's it's a pattern that follows me. I warned my girlfriend before she married me, get ready for people where we work to distance themselves because of me. It's happened.
I just blurted this all out, without really thinking about it. Give feedback as you feel is right.