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Obunga

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Ive talked about this before but before i got a girlfriend i felt like i wasnt good enough, you all reassured me that i should go tell her how i feel and she'd like me for who i am. I went with the advice and it went well.

Now i feel angery, at myself, at everything. So many thirsty guys out there and if one hits the up i cant do jack honeysuckle, shes the one to reject them. I can't be fierce nor intimidating. Theres a process of getting big i can do here but im still angery anyway. Its because my brother with a top grade girlfriend doesnt have to deal with this problem even though hes skinny like me. He has a reputation, of being a person not to really mess with even though he aint big; its cuz he can talk good. I on the other hand, cant get friends with all my pursuits, my social skills are honeysuckle. 

This all goes back to the thought that im not good enough for her. I know she will like me for who i am, but im not executing the job of being the guy who can protect the girl. How am i supposed to do that if i cant even help myself to get a social life, have friends and all that. Im pissed that all the things ive tried hasnt been working optimal and i cant do honeysuckle

I think this was more of a venting session, thanks all you guys for listening, love you all.
 
Obunga said:
Ive talked about this before but before i got a girlfriend i felt like i wasnt good enough, you all reassured me that i should go tell her how i feel and she'd like me for who i am. I went with the advice and it went well.

Now i feel angery, at myself, at everything. So many thirsty guys out there and if one hits the up i cant do jack honeysuckle, shes the one to reject them. I can't be fierce nor intimidating. Theres a process of getting big i can do here but im still angery anyway. Its because my brother with a top grade girlfriend doesnt have to deal with this problem even though hes skinny like me. He has a reputation, of being a person not to really mess with even though he aint big; its cuz he can talk good. I on the other hand, cant get friends with all my pursuits, my social skills are honeysuckle. 

This all goes back to the thought that im not good enough for her. I know she will like me for who i am, but im not executing the job of being the guy who can protect the girl. How am i supposed to do that if i cant even help myself to get a social life, have friends and all that. Im pissed that all the things ive tried hasnt been working optimal and i cant do honeysuckle

I think this was more of a venting session, thanks all you guys for listening, love you all.

First of all, accept the inevitable.  Eventually she IS going to either outright dump you for a better guy, or at the very least will
sexually cheat behind your back.

Yes, she really does like you the way you are.  That does not change the REALITY that you are not as good as other men, and she knows she can have you and have them also.

Unless you plan on putting handcuffs on your wrist and her wrist, you can't avoid the FACT that when you are not around,
other guys will approach her. There is no way to "protect" your property.

The facts of reality and the laws of nature are not your fault.   Yes, you are a loser, but that is partly because the whole 
game is rigged against 99% of men.   

Dump her, and focus on school, work, money and achievement.  Get smart. Go to the gym.  Ignore women. 
Use porn and whores.   Eventually you will be in a position where you can be the one that can steal women from weaker men.
 
Hey, Obunga - we're all here for you. Never give up on yourself. And ignore anyone who makes any stupid or negative comments.
 

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