zach26
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I'm dealing with a lot of these issues myself. One thing I'm noticing about myself is that my lifestyle isn't really allowing me to gain the tools I need in order to properly communicate. So far, I've learned that this does take practice. But consistency is key! Yes, a lot of trial and error. But social anxiety is so common now. We don't have to be ashamed about things we need to work on, right? Everyone has different obstacles. A lot of the time, the people that influence us into this bad cycle need far more help than we do, (not always) it can be complicated. Or, often times we can be at a higher awareness in different ways and put it on ourselves that we've failed when, in fact, the consciousness is just different. Subconsciously, we could not like the association we're getting because it can bring us down. Or, maybe our negative thinking patterns are bringing others down? I want to throw a lot of different possibilities out there because it can be really easy to see things in the wrong way. Also, I'm realizing this more and more in time- It is best to be a gentleman or gentlewoman towards all others. Not trying to bring out the best in others can have it's tolls on us! Or trying to always find fault. Always looking on the negative side of things. I've been constantly obsessed with these negative thinking patterns for years. It's been my identity. Playing the victim. We have to continue on with a new step forward! Often times, we are looking in the wrong places and expecting a positive result. I thought about this a long time ago too. Almost all of the problems in the world stem from not being grateful for what we have. What do you guys and gals think?