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Hello, everyone.
#1
30 year old lonely single male in California. My daily routine typically involves going to work, coming home and secluding myself to much of the world until I have to go back to work. I don't have a lot of motivation to want to do much else. I like to binge on Youtube and Netflix and play video games on my off time. Going out to bars and clubs is just not for me. 

Only social things I remotely like to do is go on social media and attend some concerts. I also plan to visit friends in other states, but beyond that, I hate socializing and dating. So far, I've been turned down by three women in the past month and I don't typically engage in sexual activity. And I'm fairly young looking guy with a baby face. 

Glad to find this forum. I may not socialize all that much in real-life  but I like online forums.
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#2
Well, you've come to the right place. Let me be the first to welcome you. Smile
To quote a popular werewolf film - 'Everyone's cursed.  It's called life'
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#3
Let me be the second.  Toungue  Welcome and have fun!
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#4
I’m third! 
Welcome.
Oooo.. I bet it’s nice and warm where you are.
So, how’s your day going so far?
🌈
We all have demons, I just choose to feed mine.
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#5
Welcome! I think many of us here hate socialising too, so you're come to the right place!
Hope to see you around.
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(02-12-2019, 07:32 PM)Jessicat Wrote: I’m third! 
Welcome.
Oooo.. I bet it’s nice and warm where you are.
So, how’s your day going so far?
🌈

Not bad. I'm OK. Just working towards a vacation. The good thing is I don't have a lot of debt and my rent is low. So I'm living comfortably without a girlfriend, marriage or kids. I think I'll just chill like this for 10 years, see where it takes me. 

How's your day?

(02-12-2019, 08:03 PM)Valkatox Wrote: Welcome! I think many of us here hate socialising too, so you're come to the right place!
Hope to see you around.

You too. Thanks for the welcome. Appreciate it.

(02-12-2019, 07:22 PM)capriccio Wrote: Let me be the second.  Toungue  Welcome and have fun!

Thank you. I'll be sure to. Smile
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#7
You chill like that for ten years, by the time you're in your 40's your social skills are going to be a little rusty....it might be a bit tricky to change your pattern of behavior then. Unless it's OK to keep living the life you describe.
If you light a lamp for someone, it will also brighten your own path.

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#8
My social skills are as rusty as a dirt bike that's been stewing in a lake for ten years. Infact, I don't think I've ever had any in the first place.

It's good that you get out to concerts and stuff now and again. I'd go places on my own if I could, because I'd be comfortable doing things on my own. You probably feel safer going out than I would, however - I don't look like an average 30 year old, and I also look weird with my hearing aids and disproportionate physical stature, so I'm probably more likely to 'get picked on for the fun of it'.
To quote a popular werewolf film - 'Everyone's cursed.  It's called life'
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(02-13-2019, 06:28 PM)hewhowalksalone Wrote: My social skills are as rusty as a dirt bike that's been stewing in a lake for ten years.

Aww! 😁
You are cute. 
Made me laugh. I feel like that too sometimes.


Uhh. I’ve just woken up.
So sleepy! Just want to pull the covers back over me and ignore the day. 😁
Gonna go on a walk with my dog now. 
Hopefully that’s gonna give me the face slap I need. 😂
We all have demons, I just choose to feed mine.
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(02-13-2019, 12:00 PM)constant stranger Wrote: You chill like that for ten years, by the time you're in your 40's your social skills are going to be a little rusty....it might be a bit tricky to change your pattern of behavior then.  Unless it's OK to keep living the life you describe.

True, but my social skills are already shot. I haven't had a GF since I was 15 and I don't think I want another GF or a wife. I hate the drama. Yes, not every relationship is a bad one, but thats just too much work for me. I have a certain way with older women. I have quite a few who are my friends, but only online so far. I wish I had a casual relationship with someone, but I don't.

(02-13-2019, 06:28 PM)hewhowalksalone Wrote: My social skills are as rusty as a dirt bike that's been stewing in a lake for ten years.  Infact, I don't think I've ever had any in the first place.

It's good that you get out to concerts and stuff now and again.  I'd go places on my own if I could, because I'd be comfortable doing things on my own.  You probably feel safer going out than I would, however - I don't look like an average 30 year old, and I also look weird with my hearing aids and disproportionate physical stature, so I'm probably more likely to 'get picked on for the fun of it'.

I was picked on when I was kid myself. I'm 5'4 tall, 150 pounds so I was pretty small and an easy target in school. I just lack the social skills to go up to people especially women and talk to them. Hence why I am single. I hold conservative beliefs and I live in California. I'm hoping if I ever move somewhere else, I can finally meet someone. But I don't plan to move right now.
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