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ITellYouHhwut

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I’m here to lurk and read mostly. This is my first post. Just saying hi

Little about me: I’m 28. I’m a virgin and probably always will be. If I’m not working, I browse forums to occupy my time. I think modern society sucks. Millennial culture is absolute garbage and I’m ashamed to be a part of it. 

Conversation starter: Explain what a relationship is like to a guy who will probably never have one
 
Please don't start up with that negative romantic mindset; we already get enough of that here.

It's only true if you believe it; IE, if you change your mindset, a lot can and will change. That's your first step.

Welcome, I guess.
 
First of all, I got that Hank Hill Propane no ass look as well.

It's chill bruh.

I'm just waiting on legalized weed so I can marry my true love without a "Green Card" youknowwhatI'msayingboi.

What's a relationship like? Not really worth it in the slightest, if you're at all content with your life.

I mean you can only want a relationship for so many different reasons.
You either wanna get laid, Want a close friendship and connection with someone, or wanna have kids and honeysuckle.

So take a vacation somewhere prostitution is legalized and regulated, or get into the porno industry and make money while you're at it.
Just be closer with your friends and family.
Or adopt some kids and honeysuckle.

Modern society is some bullshit, but it's not like we have it very bad either. It could be worse.
 
Enpatsu No Shakugan said:
Please don't start up with that negative romantic mindset; we already get enough of that here.
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That is what this forum purports to be about. I’m just sharing my own situation. It’s not negative.
 
What's up is another weekend where I likely will only talk to two people which will be a 'thank you' to the cashiers at the gas station.
 
It's something to try. It can't really be explained. You try and decide if it's for you or not.
Then you buy a cat ;-)
 
ITellYouHhwut said:
Enpatsu No Shakugan said:
Please don't start up with that negative romantic mindset; we already get enough of that here.
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That is what this forum purports to be about. I’m just sharing my own situation. It’s not negative.
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I know, but you're going in already with a give-up mindset, and like that, nothing is really going to help you.
 
Enpatsu No Shakugan said:
ITellYouHhwut said:
Enpatsu No Shakugan said:
Please don't start up with that negative romantic mindset; we already get enough of that here.
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That is what this forum purports to be about. I’m just sharing my own situation. It’s not negative.
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Yeah, but I’m not “already” giving up. I’m almost 30 years old. Lol
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ITellYouHhwut said:
Enpatsu No Shakugan said:
ITellYouHhwut said:
Enpatsu No Shakugan said:
Please don't start up with that negative romantic mindset; we already get enough of that here.
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That is what this forum purports to be about. I’m just sharing my own situation. It’s not negative.
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Yeah, but I’m not “already” giving up. I’m almost 30 years old. Lol
I know, but you're going in already with a give-up mindset, and like that, nothing is really going to help you.
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Yeah but 30 is just a number. You still have time.
 
Enpatsu No Shakugan said:
ITellYouHhwut said:
Enpatsu No Shakugan said:
ITellYouHhwut said:
Enpatsu No Shakugan said:
Please don't start up with that negative romantic mindset; we already get enough of that here.
Click to expand...
That is what this forum purports to be about. I’m just sharing my own situation. It’s not negative.
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Yeah, but I’m not “already” giving up. I’m almost 30 years old. Lol
I know, but you're going in already with a give-up mindset, and like that, nothing is really going to help you.
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Yeah but 30 is just a number. You still have time.
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I appreciate it. Sadly, from what I’ve read about evolution and human mating/pair bonding, it doesn’t seem likely I’ll achieve mating success (as they call it in scientific terms). I’ve more or less shifted gears away from the self-improvement mindset and trying to succeed to more of a “I’ll learn to live and enjoy life without it” mindset. I think this is a better bet to focus my time and energy on.
 
ITellYouHhwut said:
Enpatsu No Shakugan said:
ITellYouHhwut said:
Enpatsu No Shakugan said:
ITellYouHhwut said:
That is what this forum purports to be about. I’m just sharing my own situation. It’s not negative.
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Yeah, but I’m not “already” giving up. I’m almost 30 years old. Lol
I know, but you're going in already with a give-up mindset, and like that, nothing is really going to help you.
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Yeah but 30 is just a number. You still have time.
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I appreciate it. Sadly, from what I’ve read about evolution and human mating/pair bonding, it doesn’t seem likely I’ll achieve mating success (as they call it in scientific terms). I’ve more or less shifted gears away from the self-improvement mindset and trying to succeed to more of a “I’ll learn to live and enjoy life without it” mindset. I think this is a better bet to focus my time and energy on.
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But that's your problem. Self-improvement is how you wind up getting what you want. And you'll never get it if you remain hopeless that it'll never happen.
Just keep going forward day after day and you never know who you might meet.

I speak from experience here, man.
 
Enpatsu No Shakugan said:
ITellYouHhwut said:
Enpatsu No Shakugan said:
ITellYouHhwut said:
Enpatsu No Shakugan said:
Yeah, but I’m not “already” giving up. I’m almost 30 years old. Lol
I know, but you're going in already with a give-up mindset, and like that, nothing is really going to help you.
Click to expand...
Click to expand...

Yeah but 30 is just a number. You still have time.
Click to expand...

I appreciate it. Sadly, from what I’ve read about evolution and human mating/pair bonding, it doesn’t seem likely I’ll achieve mating success (as they call it in scientific terms). I’ve more or less shifted gears away from the self-improvement mindset and trying to succeed to more of a “I’ll learn to live and enjoy life without it” mindset. I think this is a better bet to focus my time and energy on.
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But that's your problem. Self-improvement is how you wind up getting what you want. And you'll never get it if you remain hopeless that it'll never happen.
Just keep going forward day after day and you never know who you might meet.

I speak from experience here, man.
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Hey man, I appreciate your kindness and encouragement. I’d like to discuss it further but I think I want to keep this thread light since it’s just an intro thread. If you want to pm me that’s cool.
 
Aint nothing wrong at all with the learning to live and enjoy life without it mindset. That's how I've been and I'm multitudes happier than when I was constantly worrying about it.

Sometimes it can come to you while you're focusing on other things, so win win. However for me, once things started coming to me, I just had no interest in following through. Plus I won't get with a woman unless I want to spend a large amount of time with them so I don't even begin to try and lead them on or just get laid either. I just make friends now. Though I don't go out of my way to hang out with them or anything. I like my alone time.
 

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