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Women initiating sex
#11
(09-14-2019, 01:02 AM)PandaSwag Wrote:
(09-13-2019, 06:58 PM)MissBehave Wrote: [Image: giphy.gif]

Think it’s common for women to initiate sex. Why wouldn’t it be.
I usually have a higher drive than the males I’ve been with. 
But then again, I’m not normal. 🌸

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It’s a true art form. 
Making the wink look sexy and not like your having a stroke. 😉
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#12
(09-14-2019, 03:39 AM)MissBehave Wrote: It’s a true art form. 
Making the wink look sexy and not like your having a stroke. 

Winking, cheek-kissing and finger-guns say "Hi!  I'm a KNOB."   Big Grin
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#13
Given the current political climate, letting women initiate would be the only sensible option.
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#14
(09-14-2019, 10:55 PM)ardour Wrote: Given the current political climate, letting women initiate would be the only sensible option.

Mating is about sensuality, though... not sensibility.  Evolution and feminism don't mix.
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(09-14-2019, 11:12 AM)harper Wrote:
(09-14-2019, 03:39 AM)MissBehave Wrote: It’s a true art form. 
Making the wink look sexy and not like your having a stroke. 

Winking, cheek-kissing and finger-guns say "Hi!  I'm a KNOB."   Big Grin

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FAIL! 😂
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#16
Just out of curiosity ladies, how often do your men (if you have any, this is a lonely forum after all), initiate sex?  Is it less or more often?  Or the same as you?
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#17
The question assumes women experience enough desire to initiate. Their interest is gererally lower initially, more variable than men's, declining after the marrriage.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/blog/...ual-desire

"The authors suggest that women’s sexual desire may function not only to facilitate reproduction, but also to enable pair bonding. They speculate that once couples marry, women may not feel as strong a need for sex to secure their bond with their husbands."
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#18
Sex is only part of the experience. I've only been with women <35 yo, but they were as eager as I was, or I wouldn't have been able to carry on with it. Maybe post-menopausal females are different-- I'll let you know.

In any case, it's a lot of fun in a lot of ways. Who wouldn't want to settle in for a night of snuggling with the person you most want to be with in the first place?
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#19
(09-15-2019, 12:08 AM)harper Wrote: Mating is about sensuality, though... not sensibility.  Evolution and feminism don't mix.

^So much this.  I feel like this is a big part of why there's a big discrepancy between what people say they want, versus what they actually go for.

The problem is, of course, when you can't be the caveman they want.  Because of your body, mind/personality, background, and because it doesn't make any sense - because the other side of the coin is, being a caveman and living in civilization don't mix.  It's hard to reconcile the way we're wired, with the modern world.

Not saying women don't initiate or only want certain kinds of guys.  I know exceptions to the rules exist, but that's what they are, exceptions to rules.  At least, that's my experience, and a lot of other guys' experiences too.

I also feel like it's possible to believe both that evolution and feminism don't mix, and at the same time thinking women can go for whatever jobs they want, have their own money, freedom, etc. I'm not necessarily for a return to the old days. I'm just for a little more honesty in terms of what we want and what's expected from each other. And I'm against anything that pushes more confusion.

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#20
Yes I initiate it within a settled relationship, outside that - no
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