Awkward or Uncomfortable or Comfortable Silence?

[font=Verdana, Arial]So I'm not a great conversationalist and when it comes to hanging with people I don't know that well.  There is almost always moments of silence.  With that said how do you guys deal with it?  Is it Awkward?  Uncomfortable?  Or are you ok with it.[/font]

[font=Verdana, Arial]For me depending on who it is I'm conversing with I can feel any or all of those.  But since I've gotten older I'm more comfortable with it.  But then in my mind I'm wondering if they're uncomfortable with it.[/font]

I'm normally good at conversations and very open, but some people you just don't click with. I used to feel silence as totally uncomfortable and desperately tried to remember different topics to talk about. Now I'm very okay with it. It's the time when I can reflect on how I feel, see where I stand and think about anything I want. No longer am I preoccupied how the silence should be eliminated. I just let it be. It's fine.

I know someone that doesn’t like uncomfortable silence. 
*snicker*

I notice i try to fill the silence gaps. its a bad habit. i need to learn to accept them as normal.

MissBehave said:

I know someone that doesn’t like uncomfortable silence. 
*snicker*

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Who is it? : )

PandaSwag said:

MissBehave said:

I know someone that doesn’t like uncomfortable silence. 
*snicker*

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Who is it? : )

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The worst warrior ever. He charges critters! 
It’s so embarrassing.

How dares you! In case you didn't know, if a critter is beetween your target and you, it can be used to reach the target quicker. Noob!

You two have like an anime crush/conflict vibe going, too cute.

Unix said:

How dares you! In case you didn't know, if a critter is beetween your target and you, it can be used to reach the target quicker. Noob!

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It was a test.
You passed.
Barely.

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PandaSwag said:

You two have like an anime crush/conflict vibe going,  too cute.

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I’m only here to kick his ass. 
Yes! I said it! KICK YOUR ASS!

****, This looks like a very rough rape attempt. I won't play with you anymore

Unix said:

****, This looks like a very rough rape attempt. I won't play with you anymore

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Pfffff...
I won’t play with you either!
Whenever we happen to meet each other in Borean Tundra, il just be

Poor panda, we are ruining every his thread lol its all MissBehave fault

Unix said:

Poor panda, we are ruining every his thread lol its all MissBehave fault

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Hmm.. It is kind of rude.
And ofc it’s my fault.
Panda? I like your panda.

Oh I don't mind. It's all fun and games. Till someone loses a Panda.

That is actually creepy. Where did you get that gif?

Il take a go at answering your question.
I feel that uncomfortable silence sometimes when I talk to people. I do however try to never let it show. If the person I’m talking to see that I also feel like this talk is uncomfortable, then it’s gonna make it worse. So I fake it to make it and this usually works. The other person relaxes more and then I can too.

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PandaSwag said:

Oh I don't mind.  It's all fun and games.  Till someone loses a Panda.

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Omg.. that’s so sweet! 
You are a cute panda.

Unix said:

That is actually creepy. Where did you get that gif?

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Tenor Gif

Since you called yourself pandaswag I hoped for some more interesting background for thst gif

Oh I was just thinking thats just you and missbehave personified as Anime. I just searched for anime panda on tenor gif snd saw that one. Randomly. Lol

PandaSwag said:

Oh I was just thinking thats just you and missbehave personified as Anime.   I just searched for anime panda on tenor gif snd saw that one.  Randomly. Lol

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Basically any anime where I'm kicking his ass will work.