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Is this a self esteem issue or more serious than that.
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Hey everyone it's been a long time since I posted on here. Maybe that's a good thing.  now here is the thing. I been known to have an avoident personality in the past. still do with certain individuals. 
 I notice something recently the past few months years. When it comes to someone that I don't avoid or become more  Friendly to and warmed up to, And literally the next day they give me a cold shoulder or bad vibe.  It brings out like an anger in me. A resentment in me.  where I'm afraid I'm gonna get confrontational with that person.  Where I might confront them in a hostile manner because I feel they're avoiding me for some deeper reason that I want to find out. It doesn't seem like a normal reaction and all I do is walk around with bottled up anger. what does it sound like to you? I think it's me meeting and interacting with the wrong individuals that have a ton of issues like me. It's most probably true. But I want to see what you think?

thanks.
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I want to follow up that just now with this particular individual I was referring to I approached him and we had a nice chat.But this seems to come up with others to an easy thing
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Could it be that you are overthinking things and seeing something that isn't really there? Maybe he did give you the cold shoulder, maybe he didn't, maybe he was having a bad day or was angry and you picked up on that.
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