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Sunless Sky

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How do you know if what you've had with someone was real or not?. Sometimes it's so hard to tell. 

One part of you wants to believe it was. It wants to believe it was this beautiful and amazing thing. The kind of live that sends your heart aflutter. The kind of love that burns so violently, beautifully dangerous.. Or dangerously beautiful. 

Yet there is another part of you. The objective part. The rational part. The calculating part. It sees things differently. It sees this symbiotic relationship where you are being used for comfort, to provid a sense of safety and affection. You are given little pangs of love from time to time to keep you going, to keep you from leaving. It sees you voluntarily choosing to be used. Your mind awash in blissful ignorance. 

Do you choose fantasy? Or face reality?. Are the things you see even real?. Untainted by your own negativity?. How do you know? Where is the line?. 

A warm dream or a cold reality?
 
how i know?

hmm,

by the person is not makes me waiting, willing to sacrifice, actions louder then words, keep promises, willing to change.

"It sees this symbiotic relationship where you are being used for comfort, to provide a sense of safety and affection. You are given little pangs of love from time to time to keep you going, to keep you from leaving. It sees you voluntarily choosing to be used. Your mind awash in blissful ignorance." = in narcissism term is called grooming by manipulative person.

ugly truth is better then beautiful lies.
 

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