I don't think I am, or have ever been, someone that people see in any romantic or sexual way. If I am seen, I guess I am seen as the "awkward ugly quiet guy". Or as the "moody ugly loner". Something like that. Not someone that is seen, or considered, in any sexual or romantic way. I think that is kind of why the dating sites and apps never work, why I can't even find anyone to chat with on any of them. Really, all they know is what they see on the profile ... which I posted here before ... and photos. So I guess they see the photos, and ... well ... don't see me.
But it is the same anywhere I go. I don't have to say anything, I can look as friendly as I can, but I am just not seen as someone anyone wants to know. I know people will say it is about the "energy" you put out, but yeah, I am not a big believer in all that stuff, I don't think you can really know what someone is like unless you get to know them. And even then, do we really want everyone we know to be the same? Maybe that is just me though, I don't know.
I know sometimes people say that someone might have a daughter, or a grand-daughter, or a niece, or a friend that they would introduce me to ... but yeah, that has never happened. Never even been hinted at it ever happening, or suggested that someone would. It just doesn't happen, even if there is that daughter or friend or whatever.
I'm just invisible in that way.
But it is the same anywhere I go. I don't have to say anything, I can look as friendly as I can, but I am just not seen as someone anyone wants to know. I know people will say it is about the "energy" you put out, but yeah, I am not a big believer in all that stuff, I don't think you can really know what someone is like unless you get to know them. And even then, do we really want everyone we know to be the same? Maybe that is just me though, I don't know.
I know sometimes people say that someone might have a daughter, or a grand-daughter, or a niece, or a friend that they would introduce me to ... but yeah, that has never happened. Never even been hinted at it ever happening, or suggested that someone would. It just doesn't happen, even if there is that daughter or friend or whatever.
I'm just invisible in that way.