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Feeling down during Christmas?
#1
I'm very dual to this whole Christmas celebration.
One part loves it all! 
Drinking hot cocoa, decorating, having a Christmas tree, buying gifts and wrapping it. 
Usually I go all out with the bird feeding too since it's so nice to look at them and it's hard to survive here with all that snow & cold. 
Then it's the part that feel..... alone. 
Past, present and future can take it's toll on this holliday too. 
Not being where I want in life, my family pretty much suck so that has always been a big hole in me and my problems/issues feel more painful. 
Maybe it's the closing of the year as well that gets me a little down as well. 

Do anyone else feel this too? 

Anyways. 
I hope all here have a wonderful Christmas 🎄
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#2
I used to LOVE Christmas. Up until about 10 years ago when Christmas was "ruined." It's better now, but every once in a while I'll get a pang of sadness. Thankfully, it's fleeting and passes quickly.
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#3
Christmas is depressing. Just another shitty day. I don't really do anything for Christmas. Not much to celebrate.

I love how u feed the birdies! I get some blue jays and sparrows sometimes . They love peanuts.
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#4
There is something special about birds. 
Always loves them. 🤗
Do you guys decorate Natasha?

Callie, why was Christmas ruined for you? 
Hope you have a nice celebration this year. 🎄
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(12-17-2019, 06:31 PM)MissBehave Wrote: Callie, why was Christmas ruined for you? 
Hope you have a nice celebration this year. 🎄

My husband left me on Christmas night.
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Ohh. 
I'm sorry to hear that Callie. 
That had to put a damper on it. 
Hmm. Good riddance or? 🤔
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#7
I used to decorate and then I got more sick so I was like fuck it.

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(12-17-2019, 10:40 PM)MissBehave Wrote: Ohh. 
I'm sorry to hear that Callie. 
That had to put a damper on it. 
Hmm. Good riddance or? 🤔
 
He left ten years ago.  Definitely good riddance. 
For several years, I put in minimal effort and only because of the kids.  The tree would go up the day before Christmas and get taken down on Christmas. 
It's better now. I actually like Christmas again, but sometimes a stray thought will pop in my head.  Not about him, though, just how I used to LOVE Christmas.
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Something changed it and it won't be the same again.
For me it's a change over the course of years.
I wonder if anyone is capable of keeping that same wonderful and childish feeling Christmas used to have for ever.
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#10
Life and people change as years go by that's a given, pair that in with unexpected calamities and you're bound to have a recipe for disaster.

Only breakthrough I personally see is creating new positive memories relative to Christmas so it remains relevant. That happened automatically when we were young (for those of us who didn't have fucked up lives) cause in general we didn't need to work on creating new experiences like you have to do as an adult on your own.
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