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You’re single because you’re ugly
#91
(02-18-2021, 12:17 PM)TheRealCallie Wrote:
(02-18-2021, 12:13 PM)mgill Wrote: i do find it surprising though as often times unattractive men have many of the qualities you are looking for but are ignored due to their (our) lack of physical qualities which most women find so important.

I have dated several "unattractive" guys that were assholes.

I look back at my ex and I am embarrassed. He is so ugly. In personality and looks. I am ashamed that I even talked to him.
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#92
Because you associate his appearance with negative experiences. People feel differently in hindsight. And one thing he probably was was assertive.
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#93
(02-18-2021, 12:48 PM)ardour Wrote: Because you associate his appearance with negative experiences. People feel differently in hindsight. And one thing he probably was was assertive.

He was. Very persistent. I was brainwashed. He doesn't even my type in looks, he was very overweight, and bulldog looking, trashy tattoos. But I was desperate and lonely. I felt I didn't deserve what I truly wanted.

But now I am derailing this thread. Carry On!
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#94
I too shall end up settling out of desperation.
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#95
At least you won't be required to pursue the person you're settling for.
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#96
Well, the least of things anybody has to do is to be somewhat visible in the world. But if you want to believe the matching hypothesis, most people who end up in relationships do end up with someone on their level anyway after various rejections and they tend to be the most stable.

The stories of people who settled out of active desperation, even into abusive relationships sometimes, should caution us against such choices. That will depend on whether you think bad company is better than none though...and I don't.
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#97
(02-19-2021, 08:24 AM)ardour Wrote: At least you won't be required to pursue the person you're settling for.

Women pursue men all the time. It might not be "expected" of us, but we do it. Men can be rather oblivious at times.  Toungue
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#98
(02-23-2021, 06:21 PM)Aardra Wrote:
(02-19-2021, 08:24 AM)ardour Wrote: At least you won't be required to pursue the person you're settling for.

Women pursue men all the time. It might not be "expected" of us, but we do it. Men can be rather oblivious at times.  Toungue

I'm not talking about easily deniable hints.
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#99
OP, this is a given and an unwritten rule almost every human is aware of, at least subconsciously anyway. The only reason why videos and articles pertaining to this topic have become popular over the years is because of all the lies people usually try to feed us from a young age.
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