Forgottendanfan said:
Thanks for your reply, my friend. I like the fact you took such time and effort to craft a well worded response. But the fact remains, nothing seems to work for me on the relationship front, and I'm getting very close to middle age. I feel like I've got a timebomb up my arse sometimes, if you'll pardon the crudity.
No bother, it wouldn't feel right to me if I didn't give it due diligence. It's no secret that difficulty increases for people in their 30s and 40s and how the clock starts ticking louder, even more so when people have plans like having kids and a family which plenty do. I don't know much about your situation except for what I read here or and there, but if you are willing to outline a your history and get into some details, I'm willing to listen. In public or private, whatever you prefer.
I do know that overt attention from the opposite sex is pretty rare for a guy and the older the generation the more traditional the attitudes...hardly a mystery, I know. I'm about as good at picking up subtle social clues as a blind deaf-mute, so if you aren't good at that you'll have a hard time too. I rely a lot of verbal communication, even written communication but I kinda managed to attract non-romantic interest from the opposite sex that developed into romance later on a few occasions, even if they didn't exactly have positive outcomes in the long run, no doubt I was partially at fault for that. But an experience is an experience no less.