Robin[b said:
]... and why half the present members at the time, last time this came up, either aren't here anymore or lost something so valuable to them that they sure don't seem as glad to come here anymore.[/b]
It's interesting to see You write a topic like this, makes me glad. Makes it seem like there's a certain amount of anger in people that, after it has come out, makes them blossom, so to say. Gives even me hope for the same one day, lol.
exactly...
VanillaCreme said:
There is another chat room.
no there's not hun, it's down ATM
Bluey said:
Drake my darling
I still have last say in that chat room. If you have any problems with what is happening in there then please PM me names and the reasons of your problems. I would rather sort any issue out with in a PM then go on instant chat with you as I find it to be moor controlled and constructive to sort out with in PM.
As with anyone if you have a problem with any mod or member that uses the chat box then pleas send me a PM stating your grievances.
If you have a problem with the way I run the chat box then you can send a PM to any of the forum mods or indeed bjarne him self. If any of the current admin are unhappy with the way I run things, i.e who I make mod in there then they have the power to remove that chat box and replace it with another that I am not admin of.
But as VanillaCreme has said we all ready do have a second one.
I think what your saying is we should have one like we have and maybe the second one should have moor rules. This may keep moor ppl happy.
Well I would Bluey, but honestly, tattling really isn't my style. If I have a problem with someone I tell them face to face, not to mention then it just becomes a matter of who's word do you believe, mine or there's? and it's an akward situation to put anybody in.
Yes, that's exactly what I'm saying. A second chat box where more rules are implimented and clear would be great...
Steel said:
Oh yes, let's not forget the member who randomly tells people to fresia off. Oh wait, isn't that you Drake?
I have every faith in the current chat room moderators, and I resent any implication that they are not fulfilling their job.
I was here when there were three chatrooms. I was actually a user of the room that Robin renamed "The Hateful Community" in a pique of spite. Of course I was, it was the only room that people actually went into - the other two rooms were always empty. Despite the fact that the room clearly stated that no one should get offended at the topics within, someone DID get offended, indeed, in a conversation I was a part of.
Often, when people complain, there is more to it than their simple words. I know this to the be the case here - simply put Drake, you got into an argument with someone who HAPPENED to be a moderator. Rather than be a man about it however, we have this post here. That, to me, is worse than being a "tattle", it's being downright deceitful.
Oh yes, and your point being? I think I adressed I used to do the exact same things.
Easy for you to say, you're hardly there any more, but please try not to take it so personally.
So what you're basically trying to say is, it wont work? At least if you make a second chat room, even if it's dead I'll sit there and wait for a decent human being to join..Does it cost money or something? I mean, really what's the harm in having a dead chat, plus who's to day it will always be dead again. Especially taking into consideration the fact that a lot of people dont like chat the way it is. If people chose to go to the jungle (main chat) when there's a warning of being offended, then that truly is there problem, I said that before and I'll say it again.
Well I'm glad you took my post as a personal vandetta, but to be completely honest with you I'm over the situation you're referring to. Rather than be a man about it Steel? Ouch. There's the disrespect I was talking about, what did I do to you to deserve to be talked to like that? Just so you know, I tried to talk to that person, on VARIOUS occasions civily and also apologize, I dont know your terms on acting like a man, but admitting when you're wrong is a characterstic in my opinion.
Naleena said:
OK, I really think this is a dig at mods..plain and simple. WHy? Like you said, I have seen you be one of these "arrogant, idiotic and down right perverted, sexual self-glorifying" whatever. How many times have you started fights and told people to fresia off and insulted them? But now you are gripping about the very thing you do? I agree there should be two rooms...which there are. Just don't go back to the one you hate so much if you get banned at the second one. BTW, you said somethinng to me about posting a story with no names and there you go doing it. Hypocritical, don't you think?
Oh yeah, those people in the chat ARE lonely people.
There ya go, the REAL reason you are posting this.
Yeah, yeah. Plainly you are digging at the mods.
to. ex. If there's an argument, if someone is being rude, hell even if someone needs to talk about there problems...after all isn't what this site is about? Anyway my friends, back to the topic at hand.
This doesn't even make sense. For example what? Doesn't make sense.
LOL!!! RFLMAO!!!!!!!!! RFLMAO again!!!!!!!!!!!!
I will **Coughs-bullshit**
OMG, a shred of truth.
Uh of course it is, I've cleary said I dont like the way most of them handle them selves, but I also cleary said I dont have a problem with it if there's another chat room made. How many times have I started fights lol? Honestly I dont remember, but I truthfully say it has to be under 5, I dont go around looking to start honeysuckle with people, but people to tend to get angry, offended and down right defensive when I tell the truth, this thread is a perfect example. You're taking this way too personally Nal. This is a thread about two chat rooms and the way certain mods act, I'm not talking down about them personally but wow, I sure seemed to be getting cut down don't I? Just another example of disrespect
lol @ the real reason, I dont pussy foot around, you all know me for someone who always says whats on his mind. Yeah, I obviously am, I've said that in the original post and now about 30 times in my responses. The fact of the matter is you all got too caught up in me saying the mods could do a better job and took it personally, then chose to ignore my request for a second chat room.
Oh wow nal, simply just laughing at me and calling my post bullshit? Please someone mark down even more disrespect being shown by someone who's very highly looked up to on this website. A shred of truth? I'm one of the most honest people on this website, event he people that hate me will agree with me there, please stop insulting me. If I have a problem with you why in gods name would I take it to Bluey? But just for the record, I dont have a problem with you, you're never in chat, which really discredits you backing up how the mods act anyway lmao
Robin said:
Once a *******, always a ******* huh? Once You're marked, so is Your past and future alike. You'll remain a shadow of Your former self, because all they remember is that single day that You were at the wrong place at the wrong time. The staff members here have always been perfect, because the admins who've been in charge here through the years said so. Otherwise they wouldn't be staff members. That's how it always has been and how it always will be.
You do things Your way Drake, but i think it was worth a try nevertheless. As long as the current people are in charge, You're permanently marked. I don't know how Bluey was as an admin, but Steel seems to be the best one by far, so far. Bjarne was too sloppy, i was too active. It's all relative.
You know, it's kinda funny. If the mods eight months ago would have been more strict, this topic would never have been created, because You were a total ***** back then Drake, lol. No hard feelings from me. I'm still riding the waves of the bubble that burst last summer. A numb fresia.
Yeah you're absolutely right, and truthfully I deserve to be marked. All of which is completely irrelevant to the thread though. I can't belive you just said the staff members have always been perfect, I assume you meant to say "haven't" correct?
I'm glad you see it that way, because it's completely wrong to be "marked" especially by people who have powers, and chose to abuse them. You're exactly right it would have never been created and chat was a much better place, holesome, caring and just down right friendly and I thank you for that, I was just too ignorant to realize how nice it was. I guess you never know what you have until it's gone.
Skorian said:
Drake don’t even try to say you suddenly “magically” changed. That just isn’t realistic. No one expects you to.
I can see your feeling sorry for yourself, which I have nothing against at all.
The problem is your trying to dismiss your own guilt and dismiss the things you have done. You’re trying to displace that guilt onto others. No one made you do anything, so don’t think you can shift the focus or the blame onto others. I mean, we all affect one another, but that is no excuse. Reality simply has consequences and you need to decide you will accept what you have done and go forward from there. Don't try to make yourself look good and like the victim when you victimize others.
You can't squirrel out of anything Drake, people have memories and you seem to want to avoid the real issues and try to find some back door to get away with things. This is at least what it looks like to me. There really are no excuses man.
Now you’re not the only one.
As far as religious arguments go. Not everyone in this world agrees with everyone else. It’s just a fact of life, just like the sun rising and setting. If people didn’t disagree, no one would learn anything.
Well you're right in this case, I didn't just magically change, but I do want to act like a better human being, grow up per say. You've always had a vendetta against me anyway seemingly based on maybe one or two occasions in chat where I was acting like an idiot. So please dont try to act like you know me.
Holy...sweet jesus, I am in no way shape or form trying to act like an angel here. Why do you think I completely put myself down in the orginal post, to make it clear that I wasn't trying to dismiss what I've done in the past. Of course I accept consequences of my actions, for you to imply that someone can just ignore them is rather absurd.
Exactly Wha are you referring to? How am I tryign to "squirrel" out of things? And what in gods name are the real issues here? Are you referring to me personally?
Yet again, the point of the thread was missed and this person just used an opportunity to talk down on me, question my integretiy and look down on me.
Naleena said:
I sure hope this doesn't become some Nazi forum. There are two chat rooms, as there were before. It's apparent where the hate is coming from.
This is pretty simple: A) There is another chat room if you don't care for the main chat and B) there is an "ignore" function in the main chat. If you don't like someone, or like what they have to say, simply click the "ignore" button. The moderators will handle any potential situations as they arise, as they see fit.
lol you want to talk about hate? That's truly ironic, nothing in this thread involved you at all until you chose to post talking down on me and being disrespectful. Seems someones a little bitter, You're not mod on the forum and you haven't been in chat for at least a month, I'd like to think you would dismiss yourself from my original comments but I guess you think I'm out to get you.
A) There obviously isn't, you apparently haven't tried to go to it.
B) Oh really? Then I guess the same can be said for ignoring me, you guys sure had a lot to say about all the horrible things I've doen, why didn't you just ignore me? but when it comes down to me talking about others acting rudely, it's as simple as "ignore" that's rich.
