one lonely guy
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But it was the hardest thing to do when you have a dearth of friends to begin with.
I wonder if anyone else has had to go through this.
[major rant follows]
I knew him (X) ~25yr (earlier through school & sports), but after the sports ended, it appeared we had nothing in common. I hung on, mainly due to desperation, hope that he'd change, and a general lack of friends. I'll miss his wife and son (both pretty decent people), but he just increasingly became one great jerk, dick, conceited a**h**e, you name it.
(I'm generally quite reserved when it comes to name-calling, but this case deserves special attention.)
The last straw came 4 weeks ago when I phoned first, then dropped over with coffee/donuts shortly following his birthday.
In my entire life, I have not been so insulted, mocked, interrupted, ridiculed, criticized and generally dissed. I can tolerate a few mocking jokes for a few minutes as well as the next person, but won't put up with an incessant hour-long barrage of the s**t.
Two other members (Y & Z) of our sports bunch years ago became total jerks as well (& I mercifully mutually ended friendship with them ~5yrs ago). Interestingly, X said he has tried contacting Y & Z, but said they no longer return his calls.
Gee, I wonder why?? Though Y & Z are no longer my friends, I see we have one thing in common: mutual disdain for X, the conceited jerk. I have grapevine info that confirmed that.
X's own wife isn't fond of him either - long story on that, some abuse. I'm seldom bitter, but as far as I'm concerned, X can languish a long friendless life!!! Good ruck, he deserves it!
The only thing I regret is that I didn't end it years ago.
It's left me a tad lonelier, but I have to convince myself this leaves time to find & develop better & more interesting mutually-respectful friendships.
Thanks so much for listening! Just had to get it out.
olg
I wonder if anyone else has had to go through this.
[major rant follows]
I knew him (X) ~25yr (earlier through school & sports), but after the sports ended, it appeared we had nothing in common. I hung on, mainly due to desperation, hope that he'd change, and a general lack of friends. I'll miss his wife and son (both pretty decent people), but he just increasingly became one great jerk, dick, conceited a**h**e, you name it.
(I'm generally quite reserved when it comes to name-calling, but this case deserves special attention.)
The last straw came 4 weeks ago when I phoned first, then dropped over with coffee/donuts shortly following his birthday.
In my entire life, I have not been so insulted, mocked, interrupted, ridiculed, criticized and generally dissed. I can tolerate a few mocking jokes for a few minutes as well as the next person, but won't put up with an incessant hour-long barrage of the s**t.
Two other members (Y & Z) of our sports bunch years ago became total jerks as well (& I mercifully mutually ended friendship with them ~5yrs ago). Interestingly, X said he has tried contacting Y & Z, but said they no longer return his calls.
Gee, I wonder why?? Though Y & Z are no longer my friends, I see we have one thing in common: mutual disdain for X, the conceited jerk. I have grapevine info that confirmed that.
X's own wife isn't fond of him either - long story on that, some abuse. I'm seldom bitter, but as far as I'm concerned, X can languish a long friendless life!!! Good ruck, he deserves it!
The only thing I regret is that I didn't end it years ago.
It's left me a tad lonelier, but I have to convince myself this leaves time to find & develop better & more interesting mutually-respectful friendships.
Thanks so much for listening! Just had to get it out.
olg