wannabeXL
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Every now and then I come across someone who holds this position, and I seriously don't understand: what's the deal with that? Isn't marriage basically a commitment for two people to be together until one of them dies (at least in theory)? Why is there so much fear of actually being married?
Some people say the reason is purely financial, which is practical but also calculating and kind of sad. Others say it's because they see marriage as a religious institution and they don't want to succumb to the Evil Force of Religion, but then marriage is as much of a religious institution as burial is and I don't see anyone refusing to be buried. Still others say they don't need a piece of paper to show the world what a committed relationship they're in, but that argument works only if they don't have a diploma since a diploma is just a piece of paper to show the world how educated you are.
Seriously, though, why is fear of marriage so prevalent these days? Fear of pricy wedding and the inevitable bridezilla that comes with it I can understand, but then there's always the option to have a simple ceremony at the city hall. In some states the ceremony isn't even mandatory!
Some people say the reason is purely financial, which is practical but also calculating and kind of sad. Others say it's because they see marriage as a religious institution and they don't want to succumb to the Evil Force of Religion, but then marriage is as much of a religious institution as burial is and I don't see anyone refusing to be buried. Still others say they don't need a piece of paper to show the world what a committed relationship they're in, but that argument works only if they don't have a diploma since a diploma is just a piece of paper to show the world how educated you are.
Seriously, though, why is fear of marriage so prevalent these days? Fear of pricy wedding and the inevitable bridezilla that comes with it I can understand, but then there's always the option to have a simple ceremony at the city hall. In some states the ceremony isn't even mandatory!