Recently I spent six days in Bangkok and had sex with six women. I missed a day, so I went to two places the next day. Wow, do I feel better. And judging by the postings I read here, a lot of others could benefit from this therapy.
I don't know if women have the same experience, but not having sex for a long time really messes up a man's mind. The obsession grows to the point that it actually morphs into anger. It's like you're dying of thirst and the women around you are waving Poland Spring bottles in your face. And then there's the depression. You're not a real man, you're different from other people, you're missing life, your life is a waste. As someone who went through this for years, I can read between the lines of quite a few postings and recognize that this is the real issue.
Probably the most important reaction to having sex with a few women in a short time is the realization that sex is not such a momentously big deal. You do it for a few minutes, it feels pleasurable, and that's it. When you're holding a naked woman your head doesn't explode with joy, and your life is really no different afterward. Not rocket science, but something a man has to discover for himself (and society teaches the opposite). You also see that sex with different types of women feels the same, so you don't have to be so hung up on hot bodies.
I know some of you will recoil from this advice for ideological reasons. But the rest need to consider this. And yes, I'll unashamedly call it a type of therapy. I can really see what's behind a lot of the misery on this board and know this can help.
I don't know if women have the same experience, but not having sex for a long time really messes up a man's mind. The obsession grows to the point that it actually morphs into anger. It's like you're dying of thirst and the women around you are waving Poland Spring bottles in your face. And then there's the depression. You're not a real man, you're different from other people, you're missing life, your life is a waste. As someone who went through this for years, I can read between the lines of quite a few postings and recognize that this is the real issue.
Probably the most important reaction to having sex with a few women in a short time is the realization that sex is not such a momentously big deal. You do it for a few minutes, it feels pleasurable, and that's it. When you're holding a naked woman your head doesn't explode with joy, and your life is really no different afterward. Not rocket science, but something a man has to discover for himself (and society teaches the opposite). You also see that sex with different types of women feels the same, so you don't have to be so hung up on hot bodies.
I know some of you will recoil from this advice for ideological reasons. But the rest need to consider this. And yes, I'll unashamedly call it a type of therapy. I can really see what's behind a lot of the misery on this board and know this can help.