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Ok, i wanted to see some funny video's and browsed to video.google when i got there was one video named: Psychology: Guys and Dolls.
First i was like wtf? i thought some silly guys playing with action figure dolls or something. But it was far worse... these people have become so lonely and werent able to find a partner that they chose for an artificial partner... well go and look for yourselves:

http://video.google.nl/videoplay?docid=-7277801797935788405

Take your time watching this, it a documentary of 45 minutes.
Really interesting and in some ways shocking, tell me what you guys/girls think about this. would you have a doll as a replacement?
 
Hah, yeah...I watched that on Youtube a few months ago, except there it's broken up in to chunks.

I dunno. I can certainly relate to how they got in to that situation; extreme anxiety and/or generally being rejected because of other things, that's their substitute. I definitely thought it was an interesting watch.

I don't think I would do it, because it would just be a constant reminder to me that I never could get the real thing. But I'm glad they've been able to find some happiness in it compared to where they were otherwise...it's not like they're hurting anyone. I notice people are still lambasting them in the comments on the youtube videos. Well, it's partly that hatefulness that influenced such a decision.
 
That's what happens when you start giving them dolls at a young age. I think everyone who's planning on having kids should watch:

 
It is going to be worse when these dolls become not just dolls but robots as well. How terrible would it feel to have a woman you're interested in choose a doll over you?
 
Ghost said:
It is going to be worse when these dolls become not just dolls but robots as well. How terrible would it feel to have a woman you're interested in choose a doll over you?

Yeah but on the flip side, what about if they get pretty realistic robotic women dolls for men? You ever see that movie with Ahnold Swarzennevinegar where they make clones of people? His one friend has that holgraphic woman. I'd love to have one of those! If there were realistic robot women you bet I'd have one.
 
Haven said:
Dolls... No way, trust me if you get lonely your better off with a pet try a dog.

Yeah but you can't ...er.... shouldnt ..um
 
Ghost said:
It is going to be worse when these dolls become not just dolls but robots as well. How terrible would it feel to have a woman you're interested in choose a doll over you?

Not too bad, because I'll have me a she-bot ;)

Jesse said:
Yeah but you can't ...er.... shouldnt ..um

LOL.
 
What disturbed me most about that video was just how easily the men involved were able to objectify women, or accept an object as a woman. They're dealing with 100% passivity as companionship and passion. Imagine, just imagine, after a few years of their doll-partners, if any of one them were to find a real-life breathing doll, how would they react to a partner who reacts, who moves when touched, who kisses back, um... has an orgasm?!

Could any of you settle for something so lifeless? It's sad and scary at the same time.

Edited to add: I am still watching the video now, but had to add that the scene when they were making the dolls at the factory was actually physically painful for me to watch. All those pseudo-women modeled after already fake porn stars, as some sort of ideal? They looked like dead meat hanging on meat hooks. It was vile. My stomach hurts now. :(


Also listening to some of these men discuss their ideas of women's expectations of men was kind of shocking to me. There's real disconnect between perception and reality there.


Jesse said:
Haven said:
Dolls... No way, trust me if you get lonely your better off with a pet try a dog.

Yeah but you can't ...er.... shouldnt ..um

Ha! You went there!!
 
cheaptrickfan said:
how would they react to a partner who reacts, who moves when touched, who kisses back, um... has an orgasm?!


I love it when a woman have multiple orgasm on me. I love pleasuring my partner.

A relationship is not all about me. (I can relate to her.) I can feel her...her feelings/emotions/spirit/soul.
Such as...having a climax at the sametime with your partner is heavenly.

Or sharing your failure, sucess or triumph with your partner.

Or when she tells me ..she loves me so much, it hurts and her heart
wants to explode.

Or..holding her as she's holding our child the day our child is born.

The life force energy, love, spirit or aura of a living being.
 
yikes. never in a million years. i'm going to sound dumb for saying this but i've come to realize that you can be lonely and have things that make you happy without having sex. i can at least play sports and with all the money i'll be saving i plan to buy a deep sea fishing boat and travel the world. im going to school to be a teacher so the summers off will give me plenty of time to enjoy things.
 
o_o I'm disturbed by the objectification of women in this video :l

though I do feel bad for one or two of the guys :(
 
cheaptrickfan said:
SophiaGrace said:
o_o I'm disturbed by the objectification of women in this video :l

Thank you for saying that!

SophiaGrace said:
though I do feel bad for one or two of the guys :(

Same here.

Yeah the guy who lost his mother and lives all alone now. That guy I feel sad for.

The black dude reminds me of Jeffrey dahmer o_O. Jeffrey tried having sex with a male mannequin, but his grandfather didnt like it. So when he moved out of his grandfather's house he moved onto human beings. He kept trying to make an insentient human which wouldnt decompose but that he could have sex with forever.

Now there's a guy that I'd rather have a doll than erm...eat people or have sex with drugged people.

no necrophilia :club: get a doll <= this should be the doll manufacturers Motto :3
 
hahah Sophia I like your doll maker slogan, you should go into marketing

I actually have heard of this before, a guy I knew was telling me about it when we were talking one day.

I have mixed emotions on this, while these guys aren't hurting anyone or anything, what about that this is hurting themselves?

They have created their own reality, to the point it's crossing a line, they are harming themselves by detaching from reality and trying to replace companionship with a inanimate object.

It's one thing to just to drag it out the closet and use it for fun, course this creeps me out too but hey, who am I to judge?
It's another thing when you make it your life companion and use it as a replacement for the real living thing...

Like Cheaptrickfan said, it objectifies women, it distrubs me greatly
It would disturb me greatly too if they made male dolls for women..
nobody is just a sex object.
 
Typo said:
hahah Sophia I like your doll maker slogan, you should go into marketing

I actually have heard of this before, a guy I knew was telling me about it when we were talking one day.

I have mixed emotions on this, while these guys aren't hurting anyone or anything, what about that this is hurting themselves?

They have created their own reality, to the point it's crossing a line, they are harming themselves by detaching from reality and trying to replace companionship with a inanimate object.

It's one thing to just to drag it out the closet and use it for fun, course this creeps me out too but hey, who am I to judge?
It's another thing when you make it your life companion and use it as a replacement for the real living thing...

Like Cheaptrickfan said, it objectifies women, it distrubs me greatly
It would disturb me greatly too if they made male dolls for women..
nobody is just a sex object.

I feel sorry for them and I understand. They probably can't find anyone to show interest in them and they are extremely lonely so this is what has happened. I hope I don't get that lonely, but I'll never judge someone if they've got a companion doll. At least it's something for them to feel less alone.
 
These guys have some serious psychological issues and it's very sad that this is the direction that they decided to take. It's despairing to contemplate a modern society that has enabled a condition of social isolation and lack of human support to the extent that these peoples' pathological behaviour could not be directed away from this kind of 'solution' and towards a more healthy alternative. But then, they all paid thousands of dollars for their giant masturbatory aid.

Objectification of women? Yep
Better than doing a Dahmer? Oh, yeah!

The emotional bonding with an inanimate object sounds psychologically complex. Do they have an inability or deep seated fear of reaching out emotionally to a human and decide to take the easy road with a 'still-life' because there are no uncertainties and complications with a 'thing'? Frankly, I may be cynical, but I think it's mostly about sex. They have given up on human interaction and become obsessed with shagging a plastic fantasy-ideal.

Considering at least one of the guys seemed quite misogynistic, I would prefer he take out his issues on a piece of plastic than a real human being. Though the thought of one of these 'types' snapping at some point in the future and deciding they want to experience the real thing scares me. Didn't one of the guys say he would not be able to find a woman that looked like one of the dolls in real life? Stick to the dolls and don't get any ideas guys.

I'm glad Jodie came to her senses and left Michael. Well done Jodie.
 
PoWer2tHePeOpLE said:
I'm glad Jodie came to her senses and left Michael. Well done Jodie.

Oh yeah. I could see that coming by her reaction when she met Michael's girls. Holy smokes.
 

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