4OneLastSoul7
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The need to pair off, reproduce, and die is a little too outdated for me to pursue it. It seems that most men in my position (early 20's and perpetually single) are all doing everything they can to kill their loneliness with a relationship but all too often they forget another option they always have. THEY DONT HAVE TO HAVE A GF... it is meaningless. I was in the same boat until i took control of my heart/mind and realized that relationships are nonsense. much more trouble than theyre worth and they reinforce maladaptive thoughts (dependence, uncertainty, distraction.) Its hard to make the inner change but its results are more permanent and beneficial than any relationship could ever be. In the end it's better to be strong. let the weak chase their hearts around in hopes of finding some comfort. Id rather control my feelings than be controlled.. open your eyes people. liberate yourself from the loneliness... just let it go. find contentment and peace within yourself and youll need nothing. Trust me