So this past year I've been doing my best to grow and break out of my shell and meet new people. I'm still a painfully shy person, but at least now I have some confidence. Enough confidence to be happy with my life single or not.
But I'm at a point now where I know I need to start dating. And I know I can be successful at it.
The frustrating part is that it's such a long and drawn out process. Finding the right place to go, or the right words to say, or the right times and places to touch her, all for someone that is in all likelihood seeing three other guys ahead of you anyway.
Realistically, I only have time to schedule one date a week anyway. Assuming that I was actually able to meet one new completely random single person every week to ask for a date (which I have yet to figure out how to do), it seems like with all the odds stacked against us, it could take months or years before I find someone that is actually worth sticking around for.
Are normal people this patient? Does everyone really go through this?
How are there so many people in relationships if it is such a grueling task just to start one?
Well thanks for letting me spill my thoughts all over the place here........
But I'm at a point now where I know I need to start dating. And I know I can be successful at it.
The frustrating part is that it's such a long and drawn out process. Finding the right place to go, or the right words to say, or the right times and places to touch her, all for someone that is in all likelihood seeing three other guys ahead of you anyway.
Realistically, I only have time to schedule one date a week anyway. Assuming that I was actually able to meet one new completely random single person every week to ask for a date (which I have yet to figure out how to do), it seems like with all the odds stacked against us, it could take months or years before I find someone that is actually worth sticking around for.
Are normal people this patient? Does everyone really go through this?
How are there so many people in relationships if it is such a grueling task just to start one?
Well thanks for letting me spill my thoughts all over the place here........