RebeccaSarah33
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ok, so I went to my first bar tonight. lol I'm 23 years old and have never had any desire to be a part of the whole "bar scene" it just never appealed to me at all. I'm not a fan of being surrounded by drunkeness. So why the heck did I go? lol. well, this friend I've known for the last ten years is into this sort of thing and with bands/music playing but shes more of a music lover then a bar lover it just happens that they play at bars alot. Shes been trying to get me to go to one of these local band music things with her for a few years and I always turned it down. Well I'm at a point in my life that I'm kinda lonely so I figured why not give it a shot and see what shes a big fan of. I was really bored lol. I was stuck in a corner and like there was nowhere to go, it was reeeeeeeeaaaally awkward and just I felt so uncomfortable being there. It just felt like everyone there was so fake, I didn't want to talk to anyone, look anyone in the face, I didn't want to be there, I just wanted to disappear. I wanted to turn around and go home the second I got there. I endured about an hour and a half and just couldn't take it anymore hahahahaha I wanted to make myself throw up just so I can leave LOL but I can't do that, I just told her I was tired and wanted to go home, I didn't feel as bad because she had another friend with her who is just as crazy about the music as she is. It just didn't appeal to me at all. Now that I've been to my first bar, I know for sure now that I'm not a bar person lol, wont be doing that again! lol I couldn't even wait until the new year, it would have taken too long, another hour. I felt a little scared walking out to my car as there was alotta big guys outside smoking and they all stared at me, lol I clutched my purse tight, if any of them took a step I was running LOL I just don't fit in in a place like that lol oh well! Happy New Year!