fresia it...just stop hating yourself. Keep it simple.
It's a simple chioce that you make to hate or to love. Then you act or react accordingly.
Maybe you had been conditioned or conditioned yourself and it became habitual.
This process is neatrual...We are creatures of habits. Simply condition yourself to love yourself.
It might take more effort at first to break the old habits. Work through some guilt and shame.
Change your thinking change your life...
Acting builds habits...Habits build charecter. Practicse....practise..practise...
Some people say ACT as if....that's becuase you're still in the process of breaking through guilt and shame mentally and emotionally.
Never the less...you're still in action or practise.
If you made mistakes...simply forgive yourself...move forward and learn from your mistakes.
Allow yourself to do so..Give yourself a break. No one is perfect.
We all make mistakes...it's a part of life.
Yes i think I'm the honeysuckle. If other people don't like it...that's their fucken problem. Screw ******* guilt.
I'm not competing or comparing myself to anyone...becuase I know I'm the honeysuckle
"I'm a child of god...I have the right to be here...no more nor no less than the moons and stars."
This statements simply is a reminder that...I AM the honeysuckle..
what good would it do to hate myself???..nothing, it's unhealthy as fresia.
We all have assets and liabilites. Our good qaulities and flaws. Self acceptence...Screw guilt.
Capitalize on your assets...work on your liablities.
Do not hate yourself or beat up yourself for making mistakes, having flaws or liabilties.
Stop punishing youself...
What good would it do to punish yourself ???...Nothing.
If you don't punish yourself...you'll have more time and energy to correct your mistake and move on with your life.
If you stopped beating up on yourself...eventually you'll have a brain fart moment. (commonsence)
"if i don't beat up on myself today or put myself down today...No SOB is going to beat up on me or put me down either."...Duh
You'll have courage to rid abusive, manipulative and adbrasive people out of your life.
Or you'll simply just walk away from a bad situations...still knowing you're the honeysuckle.
If you know you're the honeysuckle...you won't waste your time bragging, boasting or promoting yourself....becuase you're the honeysuckle.lol
If you know you're the honeysuckle..you won't be seeking approval from outside sources or be a doormate...
If you stop hating yourself...you'll be more open and have more times for other things..such as living, enjoying life and being happy.
Generally people wanna be around happy people..It'll be a natural process of you attracting poeple into your life...
If people tries to put you down...they have simply over step their boundaries . Tell them to fresia-off in whatever style sooth ya.
Self confidence, self worth, self esteem, I'm the honeysuckle...whatever term suits ya.