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Thesp88

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I feel really lonely these days .
I feel so empty inside and it scares me ...

I was so happy , so joyful , I could daydream about my happiness all day long ..

But now it's so different ... And to be honest , it's really hard right now .

It's just me and my room now , just me and this computer , trying to let go of the past .
Trying to forget all the memories that are poisoning my happiness
I never thought I'd be in this position one day , it took me by surprise

I can try to be happy and I am actually happy when I see my friends ..
But you can't see them all the time , they have a life too you know ...

So what happens when everybody's busy and you're by yourself all day long ?
Are you happy ?! Are you sad ?! Are you Scared , anxious ?!

And what exactly is loneliness ? Is it really the absence of other people around you ?
Or just the fact , that you feel empty and lost inside , that you feel like you can't really relate to someone ?
Do you feel lonely because you've lost a part of you along the way and you just don't feel the same ?
Your friends can't really understand your problem ,
Because they're too busy having fun and living their lives ...

You know you feel lonely when you're desperately trying to smile
When you,re desperately trying to find the good in the negative
That no matter how many smiles in faces you see around you ,
You smile , but you don't feel that happiness.

You know you're lonely when minutes feel like hours and hours feel like days and so on ...

But how exactly do we fix our loneliness ?!

Everyone is different , everyone has a different way of finding back their happiness .
Life is so complicated and we wish that we could understand it .

They say time fixes our problems , they say that wounds heal with time ...
But why do we have to wait to feel happy ?! Do we really want to wait for time to do it's work ?
Or should we get up in the morning and go chase our happiness by ourselves .?

Whether we like it or not , we have to go and get it ,
You have to fight for your happiness
If you really want something , you have to go get it .
You can't sit and cross your fingers that everything will get better thanks to time .

We have to chase our dreams , we have to be brave and stand up against our own fears.
You have the choice to live in happiness or to spend you days living in the past .

Sooner or later , we all have to let go ,

We can't go down without a fight , giving up is never an option .
Yes it hurts being lonely , yes it hurts having you're heart broken
Yes it hurts having to deal with family , friends problems
yes it hurts and you are right

But you can't live with pain , you can't carry around your problems .
You have to realize that this life isn't easy , that we will always have our obstacles to overcome ..
How I wish that it could all be different ..

But what ever happens , it happens for a reason , wich one ?!?
Way may not know right away , but one day we get our answers or we understand them in some way ...

You are not alone , there are others , you'll never be alone
Whoever you may be , I care for you , I love you

You are my brother or my sister .

Don't ever give up , please , believe in yourself , believe in me as I believe in you .

Toughen up people , life is going to be a rough ride , you better be prepared ..
You are all on this planet for a reason , you are all here to do great things .
Don't let your problems get in the way of the beautiful things that you are meant to do in this life .

You are special , you are my friend , you are the reason for the joy in someone's heart .

Be brave , Be strong , happiness ... Is just around the corner ....
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PS : I am from Quebec , Canada , I'm 19 years old and I'm French so forgive me if there's any mistake in my text ...

I wrote this because I've been struggling with problems but I decided to be strong and live my life in the best way possible

I wrote for anyone who needs help or who just feels lonely ..

Peace !!! :) !!
 

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