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http://www.trutv.com/library/crime/criminal_mind/psychology/stalkers/5.html
1. After initial contact, the stalker develops feelings like infatuation, and therefore places the love object on a pedestal.
2. The stalker then begins to approach the object. It might take a while, but once contact is made, the stalker's behavior sets him up for rejection.
3. Rejection triggers the delusion through which the stalker projects his own feelings onto the object: She loves me, too.
4. The stalker also develops intense anger to mask his shame, which fuels the obsessive pursuit of the object. He now wants to control through harassment or injury.
5. The stalker must restore his narcissistic fantasy.
6. Violence is most likely to occur when the love object is devalued, as through an imagined betrayal.
BEWARE, THIS REALLY HAPPENS!
1. After initial contact, the stalker develops feelings like infatuation, and therefore places the love object on a pedestal.
2. The stalker then begins to approach the object. It might take a while, but once contact is made, the stalker's behavior sets him up for rejection.
3. Rejection triggers the delusion through which the stalker projects his own feelings onto the object: She loves me, too.
4. The stalker also develops intense anger to mask his shame, which fuels the obsessive pursuit of the object. He now wants to control through harassment or injury.
5. The stalker must restore his narcissistic fantasy.
6. Violence is most likely to occur when the love object is devalued, as through an imagined betrayal.
BEWARE, THIS REALLY HAPPENS!
