dslegends said:
dreamer8 said:
dslegends said:
Way too many times man, and it sucks but you get over it and move on!!
I told myself I let go of it,but my heart still aches.
I wonder if like...the actual heartache pain is real,or it's all mental.
Really i think the results of your heartache is more mental than real...Yes it does hurt that the person you have feelings for does not like you, here a thing have you told this person that you really like he/she? I feel that it is always a big sense of pressure off of the shoulders if you just tell them how you feel...it gets those things out of your mind and to me it help wonders.
I did. The guy basically told me they liked so-and-so first and tough titties. The guy knew beforehand that I liked him,but wasn't forthcoming on telling me anything as far as the other chick was concerned. Nor was his now girlfriend, a former friend,who also knew I liked him.
The same honeysuckle happened to me in middle school.
The pain that seems to come and go is years of rejection,the constant process of putting myself back together again,wondering if something's wrong with me and the past emotional abuse of exes. The situation,the basis of this post sent everything rushing back and magnified the pain (if that makes sense..)
I was certainly thinking of ending myself.
I'm more clear on what I need to do now,personally as I move on and venture out to continue searching for my own happiness and working on building myself back up.
