Sorry I'm at a conflict within myself, so I'm just trying to get every angle on this subject. I just want to know how is it not pathetic to be a virgin at a later age because I've been looking at what everyone has been saying.
First of all, in a thread on this site, people were talking about how sex is a need. If something is a need, how is it not pathetic to have never done it? If sex is a need than people who have never done it, might be really miserable, sad, and lonely which is a very pathetic state to be in.
Secondly, if people use it as an insult, than how is it not pathetic to be one :/? I asked someone who is a very kind individual and friend of mine, how they would respond to a virgin questioning their sexual beliefs. They said if the person were to question in a certain way they would respond by saying "what do you know, virgin?" If this came from someone who is usually quite kind to others than it doesn't give me much hope and ends up causing me to think being a virgin really is pathetic.
I'm just stuck in conflict between 2 thoughts and I'm having a hard time sorting it out like I said :/. I've heard stories of someone telling someone else that they were a virgin, and the person ended up dropping them becoming uninterested in them so it might be pathetic in many people's eyes.
People don't understand how incredibly hard it is for some people to have sex. I was never the popular kid or the self centered jock in high school. Especially with girls, because I typically ended up being shunned by literally all of them and I don't know why. Whether it be they look away in disgust or just never look over and pay attention to me. I guess it's just people should not judge until they have been in the other person's shoes. It really is incredibly hard for some and just causes so much sadness and problems in one's life. I just wish it wasn't so diffcult to do for some people. So really though, how is it not pathetic to be in such a state of virginity that seems so endless?
First of all, in a thread on this site, people were talking about how sex is a need. If something is a need, how is it not pathetic to have never done it? If sex is a need than people who have never done it, might be really miserable, sad, and lonely which is a very pathetic state to be in.
Secondly, if people use it as an insult, than how is it not pathetic to be one :/? I asked someone who is a very kind individual and friend of mine, how they would respond to a virgin questioning their sexual beliefs. They said if the person were to question in a certain way they would respond by saying "what do you know, virgin?" If this came from someone who is usually quite kind to others than it doesn't give me much hope and ends up causing me to think being a virgin really is pathetic.
I'm just stuck in conflict between 2 thoughts and I'm having a hard time sorting it out like I said :/. I've heard stories of someone telling someone else that they were a virgin, and the person ended up dropping them becoming uninterested in them so it might be pathetic in many people's eyes.
People don't understand how incredibly hard it is for some people to have sex. I was never the popular kid or the self centered jock in high school. Especially with girls, because I typically ended up being shunned by literally all of them and I don't know why. Whether it be they look away in disgust or just never look over and pay attention to me. I guess it's just people should not judge until they have been in the other person's shoes. It really is incredibly hard for some and just causes so much sadness and problems in one's life. I just wish it wasn't so diffcult to do for some people. So really though, how is it not pathetic to be in such a state of virginity that seems so endless?