Xelha
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As the title suggests, I'm in a LDR with my bf. It's always been long distance for us, so I guess we're used to it, but at the same time the situation really sucks.
I'm not considering breaking up with him or anything, he's a really good guy. But sometimes I wish things could be easier than this. I've always been alone in life, so I suppose I should be used to this kind of thing, in a sense. But I guess the problem now is that I can't hope I'll meet a guy tomorrow or the day after... or whenever. Now it's all different, the date I get to see my bf is always already set, or possibly so far off in the future that it isn't yet known. I can't hope to meet him by chance on the street, or that he might surprise me with a visit.
It's also somewhat sad to think that one day in order for us to be together permanently, it would mean either me leaving behind my family and my old life... or for him to do that. It's hard to imagine. =/
Anyone else had experience with an LDR?
I'm not considering breaking up with him or anything, he's a really good guy. But sometimes I wish things could be easier than this. I've always been alone in life, so I suppose I should be used to this kind of thing, in a sense. But I guess the problem now is that I can't hope I'll meet a guy tomorrow or the day after... or whenever. Now it's all different, the date I get to see my bf is always already set, or possibly so far off in the future that it isn't yet known. I can't hope to meet him by chance on the street, or that he might surprise me with a visit.
It's also somewhat sad to think that one day in order for us to be together permanently, it would mean either me leaving behind my family and my old life... or for him to do that. It's hard to imagine. =/
Anyone else had experience with an LDR?