yeah....after long term relationship break up.
I usually get rid of everything that reminds me of my ex. Too many triggers.
I might keep photo or some sentimental item and put them into a box then put it into storage.
After a 6 yerars relationship...I move out of our country home and gave all the furniture away.
After my last break up...I don't have furniture or much of anything to remind me of her.
There's still stuff in storage mostly personal belongings...maybe item here and there that she gave me....
I havn't looked in my storage in years.
I gave it all to her. The last thing to go was my Z28. It was my car...never the less it brought back too many
memories and gave me alot of triggers. I actaully ended up giving that car away too.
I've ran into her a couple of times this month.
I looked right into her eyes...Nothing.... no feelings of any sort...hurted, wanting her back, resentments..etc...Nothing
It was major improvements for me.
I saw her again last week. I didn't notice it at first but my female friend that I was talking to pulled me into her and gave
me a bare hug. Then I notice my ex walking by.
What are freinds for.lmao
My friend ask me about how I felt after that a couple nights ago. She say what did you feel about her???
I was cludless to what or who she was talking about. Major...major improvements becuase the furtest thing on
my mind is my ex-gf....
"who ?? what?? when?? where??...oh her. Anyway, you were asking why I keep staring at that woman sitting across that way?"
" you want me to take a picture?"...Why?..lmao
"no...no I don't want you to go ask her for her number for me. That would totally be fresia up. She would think I don't have any balls". lmao
"ok....ok...ok, I'll stop playing footies with ya"
"how do i know she's flirting with me?"
"Well....she licked her lips about a minute ago."
"Did you see that???...she just put her finger in her mouth and sucked on it". lmao
"see..she just smiled at me...I told you"
Female friend " you are so fucken Crazy"
I had a lot of female friends that helped me through this process. A while back my office manager and my secutray would flirt all the time
in the office. My office manager had been my friend thruoghout the years and kind of understood what i was going through. She knew me long
before my ex-gf came into my life..She actaully live around the conner from me when we were kids..Kind of like an older sister.
I simply felt wierd or guilty for looking at other women in a sexual manner.
She used to come to my desk everyday and asked me how she looks...She bascailly gave me a fashion show..lmao
Asked me how her ass looks. Sometime she'll even like me play with her hair. She'll make sublte remarks as asking me to feel how soft her hair is.
Other times the girls in the office when make body contacts with me...let me paly with thier hands and stuff.
I didn't really catch what was happening at first. I bascailly isolated myself and had a hard time being around people period. Even though I've know
these people for a long time...It was a part of the process of me be social again and moving on with my life. She also gave me alot of pep talk and
was very supportive. Mentally and emotionally at the time I wasn't too well. Returning back to work as a challenge...
hahahaaaaa...we used to get into shouting matches too....she's my office manager.lmao It's all good.
