incognitowithh
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So here I am over 30 now, 31 to be exact. I had fun in my 20s, not interested in getting married or having children...could all come later. Then, a year and a half ago I get diagnosed with genital herpes. That has changed the dating world tremendously. Physically, it's no big deal...doesn't hurt me, doesn't affect me in any way. Psychologically, however, it's quite an issue. I decided that I needed to be proactive and educate myself on it. I find out that 1 in 3 in big cities like mine have it! 1 in 3! Well, most don't know about it or don't tell others...so the pool is not very big. Dating is tough...I am now at a point where I will ONLY date guys that also have it. It's hard to put such limitations on dating when you are looking to find, "the one".
Anyone else willing to admit they have it too? I understand if you don't want to post publicly, but I'm always open to a private message.
Anyone else willing to admit they have it too? I understand if you don't want to post publicly, but I'm always open to a private message.