I think that question might need it's own thread to get more opinions than just mine. I'm not a particularly jealous person so to me, it wouldn't make much difference as long as I'm their number one. I would trust them. I truly care for my ex as a person and friend and have some very nice memories with them. Those don't go away - we just don't feel the same way towards each other that we once did so I can talk to her and see her image and no longer desire her as I once did. Isn't that ok for a partner to keep an image of their ex in that context?
How much time do you spend on your morning rituals? To get yourself presentation ready to be seen by others? Not on special occasions but on a typical day.