Lostnfound
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Hi, my wife had a extremely bad depression episode during covid lockdowns and has been on medications and not improving ever since then. i got to know she had depression before we met but didn't tell me about it earlier and stopped taking medicines back then.
She wanted to live with her parents till she feels better but it's been 5 months and she doesn't want to come home, whenever I ask her about it she says iam not ok yet but can somehow talk about buying things online. Iam worried all the time about her and that's making me depressed.I love her a lot but i haven't recieved the love that i have given.
What might be wrong? In depression you don't want to live with you partner at all- love is gone? I met her doctor and was told she likes getting attention, can that be true? I didn't believe the doctor at the time. Though she did had some childhood traumas and not ready to take counseling session at all.
She doesn't feel like doing anything wakesup at 11 in the morning and rests till evening though currently on meds but even before medication she wasn't very active type didn't use to help in daily chores.
I think iam too attached and she's not.I want to talk things through about it but fearing her depression might get worse i never talk. How should I handle things? I think its turning toxic for me.
Hope to get some answers.
She wanted to live with her parents till she feels better but it's been 5 months and she doesn't want to come home, whenever I ask her about it she says iam not ok yet but can somehow talk about buying things online. Iam worried all the time about her and that's making me depressed.I love her a lot but i haven't recieved the love that i have given.
What might be wrong? In depression you don't want to live with you partner at all- love is gone? I met her doctor and was told she likes getting attention, can that be true? I didn't believe the doctor at the time. Though she did had some childhood traumas and not ready to take counseling session at all.
She doesn't feel like doing anything wakesup at 11 in the morning and rests till evening though currently on meds but even before medication she wasn't very active type didn't use to help in daily chores.
I think iam too attached and she's not.I want to talk things through about it but fearing her depression might get worse i never talk. How should I handle things? I think its turning toxic for me.
Hope to get some answers.