- Dec 30, 2022
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I'm the same age as you, but i don't work/study because my depression has clucked up my brain beyond repair i think in certain aspects. I find it very hard to believe that you can't meet a single woman if you are outgoing/have a job and can meet women in different ways. I've come to the conclusion i will be alone forever and i am getting used to that, as love never works for me. A woman/man is out there for everyone, but maybe you are trying to force it too much? As that can be a thing to be honest. Do you literally get turned down immediately or? As i am miffed by this still, even after seeing you post about it a few times.
Regarding your question, I wouldn't say I'm trying to force it too much. I'm certainly trying to be pro-active; too many people aren't active enough, won't go out socially or talk to people, and wonder why they're still single. I'm relaxed in each of the environments I'm in, it's just a concerted effort to make myself go out 3-4 evenings a week, because I feel I can't sit at home and then complain about being single.