Does anyone else feel like people are garbage?

[sunflowergirl1306]

I think people are who they are,and they can't help it.

 

[TheRealCallie]

I think people are who they are,and they can't help it.

That's the thing though, they CAN help it, they just won't, in a lot of cases. It's too hard, it's too scary, it's not going to fix anything. There are a million of excuses, but at the end of the day, there are a million tools out there to help people find their way to being better people all around. People change every day. A lot of times, they change for the worse, but they could just as easily change for the better. You are not trapped in the life you have unless you refuse to do anything to change it for whatever reason or give up after trying simple stuff. (By simple stuff, I mean things that in hindsight are simple, but at the time, are hard as hell and seem like a lot)

 

[sunflowergirl1306]

That's the thing though, they CAN help it, they just won't, in a lot of cases. It's too hard, it's too scary, it's not going to fix anything. There are a million of excuses, but at the end of the day, there are a million tools out there to help people find their way to being better people all around. People change every day. A lot of times, they change for the worse, but they could just as easily change for the better. You are not trapped in the life you have unless you refuse to do anything to change it for whatever reason or give up after trying simple stuff. (By simple stuff, I mean things that in hindsight are simple, but at the time, are hard as hell and seem like a lot)

I agree,very true

 

[xephier102]

That's the thing though, they CAN help it, they just won't, in a lot of cases. It's too hard, it's too scary, it's not going to fix anything. There are a million of excuses, but at the end of the day, there are a million tools out there to help people find their way to being better people all around. People change every day. A lot of times, they change for the worse, but they could just as easily change for the better. You are not trapped in the life you have unless you refuse to do anything to change it for whatever reason or give up after trying simple stuff. (By simple stuff, I mean things that in hindsight are simple, but at the time, are hard as hell and seem like a lot)

Oversimplification of psychology is a terrible thing. Ya'know what really would be easy; for the government to fix the education system, and work towards curing the massive wage gap. Yet those are the things that people go "oh, it's a lot harder than you make it sound..."(and that stuff is given up on before people even consider it..) despite the massive resources, and manpower that those in the government commands. And if it's that damned hard, y'all got all the power, change it so it's not..