- Aug 29, 2021
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I already said that I am totally alone, almost isolated since 1984... Through the years there were 5 people that I talked with, that were significant relationships to me, they were even talking, dialoguing with me - 4 women and 1 man, no sexual meaning at all, only friendship. One of them even talked to me in the past 12 years or so, and she even helped me financially. 13 years ago I met her and her family on Easter day and she was pregnant, then she met me a few more times on Easter or Christmas. I had seen both her children - the boy only in photographs and the older child, a girl, a saw her in her infancy and when she was a toddler. I really cared for this woman, she lived in another city, she was my colleague in high school (lycée). She was an endocrinologist. Only 2 days ago I found on the internet that she tragically died in a car accident while she was driving her car towards my city, Bucharest, one year ago, on Christmas Eve. She was accompanied by a 12-year-old child, probably her boy that she was pregnant with when we started to meet again in 2008-2009. It is uncertain if the child survived. I felt grief, to me it was painful - she was my only contact, my only friend - and I felt that her life was cut off too soon, maybe she was about to live new good experiences by herself. Sadly enough, she had told me one year earlier that she had divorced her husband. Gone too soon maybe... may she rest in peace. She was talkative but she knew how to keep silent, she was generous and kind and many times she spoke the truth, even if hurtful.