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Aug 10, 2022
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south australia
hi everyone

was wondering what people do these days to find a girlfriend or boyfriend and is there still a way you can still meet someone from this generation the good old ways like our parents did in the 80s-90s by actually going out and meeting face to face.

wondered because found out that the sisters seeing someone and its reminding you how much you want the friend and you know that it wont happen fast and you are doing everything you can and you cant do anymore at moment.

am usually working every weekend and while thats not all the reason its certainly not helping things.

is there a way and what can be done until your not working weekends or holidays or atleast not every one of them.

just feeling like it is never going to happen even though people say it will eventually, dont

have hundreds every time to hire a social companion even if its get the confidence.

and sometimes you feel like you have no one even though you really do.

last time that had gotten to experience something not even comparable was in 2005 at year 12 formal when taking a cousin and in 2013 at a friends bbq someone was there and spoke to her and thats got to be a step as never met her before and in january 2014 at a cousins wedding danced with another cousin and in 2015 watched a movie with that same cousin that had danced with at wedding year before as arrived earlier for some reason as they already were watching something and also later in 2015 another cousins friend.

the above is the only chances that have had and now its 2022, atleast 7 years after.

what are good ways to talk to girls and let them know what youre looking for.

where would you go in a small town and is there a way to meet someone from this generation way people used to by going out.

what is a way to find a girl during coronavirus, what is a safe way while trying to delay or avoid it as thats one thing not helping.

plus at property theres not enough privacy and just doing best with what have got at moment.

if you could reply back thatd be great.



Princess Pink Love
Oct 17, 2013
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My house
To meet people like they did in the 80s and 90s, you would have to go back to the 80s and 90s.S

Sorry, but today's world is an entirely different place than it was then. People weren't so offended over everything and were more willing to give people a chance.

All you can do is go where people are and talk to them. Doesn't have to be on the weekend, people congregate every day of the week. Find a hobby or club or something, volunteer, just do something to get yourself around people.

Welcome to the forum.

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